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lisab said:Upon reflection, I have to admit my strong reaction is really directed more at exposing young girls to porn.
I believe you have completely shifted the discussion here. While it started with accidental release of private x-files, nobody told about exposing children to proffessionally shot porn. We were (or at least I was) mainly talking whether kids seeing their parents (or, in the society that is not closed between four walls as we are, other tribe members) during sex are in danger - or not. And the only danger I can see here is when kid (regardless of sex) sees it and knows (because of the cultural prejudice already implanted) that it sees people doing bad things. At this moment world starts to be inconsistent, and that's a sure way of confusing the kid. Kind of double bind if you know the term.
Funny thing - intuition tells me that kid seeing now and then their parents during sex will treat it as a natural thing, and it will be much earlier able to understand - when seeing porn - that that is not a real thing. Kids understand the difference between the real life and fairy tales in kindergarten, teenagers should be able to do so as well