only1god said:
Doesn't that imply one of the two things are accelerating?
"Accelerating" is relative--at least, it is as you are using the term. For example, if you jump off a cliff and let a rock go just as you do so, you and the rock are accelerating relative to the Earth, but you are not accelerating relative to the rock and the rock is not accelerating relative to you.
There is a non-relative concept of acceleration called "proper acceleration", which basically means "feeling weight". This sense of "acceleration" is not relative to anything; it's something you can measure locally. For example, when you stand on Earth, you feel weight, and hence have nonzero proper acceleration; but if you jump off a cliff, you don't feel weight, and hence have zero proper acceleration. In your scenarios, the person at rest in the "box" feels no weight (they are in free fall), but the rocket does when its engine is on.
If we re-frame your scenarios using proper acceleration, it becomes even easier to see that the equivalence principle works. In each scenario, as just noted above, you have zero proper acceleration (you are weightless), and so does the box (since it is at rest relative to you), and the rocket has the same nonzero proper acceleration when its engine is on. Its proper acceleration and your lack of it (and the box's lack of it) in turn completely determines the rocket's motion relative to you (and the box) in both scenarios.
only1god said:
this doesn't happen in the space-box
Yes, it does. When the rocket's engine fires in the space-box, it accelerates relative to you and the box (in the first sense of "acceleration" above).
You appear to lack an extremely basic understanding of how rockets work.
only1god said:
The box is at rest relative to you, but the rocket in the "space box" scenario is not when its engine fires.
Again, you appear to lack an extremely basic understanding of how rockets work.