Andre
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Thanks OmCheeto, it looks like we agree.
May I wrap that up in my generic memorial speech, and feel free to copy it.
Dear friends
We are gathered here today to honor and pay respect to those dearly beloved who have gone before us defending our freedom, so that we may live free. We reflect on their service and their sacrifice defending our country and our people against the enemy.
But during this reflection it occurs to me that in many places on Earth, memorials are held on different days for different countries, when people pay respect to their heroes. We have called them enemies and they have called us enemies. And then I wonder why?
Why was it that both sides were determined to take lives for each one's own good cause. Did the end justify the means? We thought it did, because we were all convinced of the evilness of the enemy, we lived in fear, and our hopes for a bright future were dim. We were convinced that we had no choice but to eliminate the threat. Sometimes that choice was indeed inevitable, when we had to defend ourselves against actual acts of war.
But was it always inevitable? Now we know that the others, the people, the ones we used to call enemies, had exactly the same thoughts, that we were the evil enemy.
But we were no threat to them at all, we just wanted to live in peace and have a happy future together with the beloved ones we commemorate today. I guess it’s not too farfetched to assume that this too was the wish of the other side, the people in the street.
But why then, do we listen to those who come to tell us that we have a terrible enemy who needs to be eliminated or our future would be taken away and we would all perish? Why do we want to believe that so much? Is it the desire to feel comradeship that a common enemy brings about? Is it our eagerness to go and take action against the enemy given in by our wish to do good? But above all our wish to contribute to the common cause and show that we are a respected member of our society?
But don’t those on the other side do exactly the same thing? So if they do what we do, aren’t we like them, aren’t we our own enemy? Aren’t we part of the cause for this memorial? And will we create more reasons for this memorial in the future?
Dear friends
If we want to break this mutual positive feedback effect, we must no longer think in terms of them versus us. We must resist our initial reaction and resist the idea that we have an enemy. We must recognize demagoguery and we must not take it for granted when we are told that we have a terrible enemy.
Go back home and get friends on PF and facebook and so on, in China and Iran, Russia and Pakistan, Nigeria, Indonesia, Vietnam, wherever you can find them. Talk with them, share thoughts and discover that peace is answered with peace. And then realize, there is no them and us. We are all in this live together. Let's' not waste more precious lives of our fellows our home country or our neighbor’s and perhaps we can prevent having to commemorate more heroes than the ones we respectfully remember today.
May I wrap that up in my generic memorial speech, and feel free to copy it.
Dear friends
We are gathered here today to honor and pay respect to those dearly beloved who have gone before us defending our freedom, so that we may live free. We reflect on their service and their sacrifice defending our country and our people against the enemy.
But during this reflection it occurs to me that in many places on Earth, memorials are held on different days for different countries, when people pay respect to their heroes. We have called them enemies and they have called us enemies. And then I wonder why?
Why was it that both sides were determined to take lives for each one's own good cause. Did the end justify the means? We thought it did, because we were all convinced of the evilness of the enemy, we lived in fear, and our hopes for a bright future were dim. We were convinced that we had no choice but to eliminate the threat. Sometimes that choice was indeed inevitable, when we had to defend ourselves against actual acts of war.
But was it always inevitable? Now we know that the others, the people, the ones we used to call enemies, had exactly the same thoughts, that we were the evil enemy.
But we were no threat to them at all, we just wanted to live in peace and have a happy future together with the beloved ones we commemorate today. I guess it’s not too farfetched to assume that this too was the wish of the other side, the people in the street.
But why then, do we listen to those who come to tell us that we have a terrible enemy who needs to be eliminated or our future would be taken away and we would all perish? Why do we want to believe that so much? Is it the desire to feel comradeship that a common enemy brings about? Is it our eagerness to go and take action against the enemy given in by our wish to do good? But above all our wish to contribute to the common cause and show that we are a respected member of our society?
But don’t those on the other side do exactly the same thing? So if they do what we do, aren’t we like them, aren’t we our own enemy? Aren’t we part of the cause for this memorial? And will we create more reasons for this memorial in the future?
Dear friends
If we want to break this mutual positive feedback effect, we must no longer think in terms of them versus us. We must resist our initial reaction and resist the idea that we have an enemy. We must recognize demagoguery and we must not take it for granted when we are told that we have a terrible enemy.
Go back home and get friends on PF and facebook and so on, in China and Iran, Russia and Pakistan, Nigeria, Indonesia, Vietnam, wherever you can find them. Talk with them, share thoughts and discover that peace is answered with peace. And then realize, there is no them and us. We are all in this live together. Let's' not waste more precious lives of our fellows our home country or our neighbor’s and perhaps we can prevent having to commemorate more heroes than the ones we respectfully remember today.
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