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Gokul, I understand your point, and I am not trying to say that the 'loss of dignity' comes from being worried about peoples opinions of you, that feeling rapidly fades after a certain age anyway. When I say 'society' I'm talking about the culture you live in, the values that people of your culture share. It's not as if we form our opinions in isolation, and by looking at history/anthropology we can see how arbitrary our opinions can be, even when everyone around us thinks the opinion is something self-evident that we all share by virtue of being human.
Ok, but if there is no loss of dignity, then why would such a person kill themself? f95 put it this way:
If there is no loss of dignity, then why kill your former body? There are lots of bodies that aren't you, would you also kill them if you had the right?
As you know, you can kill yourself in many ways without being bothered by the government. The question is whether the government should approve and or assist you in doing so. To frame the debate as anything else is dishonest, no one can stop you from killing yourself in America, they can only punish you for trying, which implies you failed, which implies you didn't try very hard. And since anyone can visit alt.suicide and get all the info and contacts they need, without any reasonable fear of the law, it is dishonest to claim that assisted-suicide opponents are working to keep suffering people from killing themselves, we are only working to keep the government that we elect, pay for, and pledge to honor and support from approving and assisting in suicide. Suicide != murder. Assisted-suicide = (murder + sends the wrong message to people with lives deemed suicide worthy).
Luckily this is very unlikely to ever happen, since only 3/60 people who chose state-assisted in Oregon in 2008 listed pain as a reason for ending their lives.
Fortunately no one in Oregon had it quite that bad, but based on the survey loss of autonomy and decreasing ability to participate in activities that made life enjoyable were the two biggest reasons for chosing death.
Recovering from a near total loss of actvities is difficult, but it is just a matter of having a flexible brain. After all, children who are born with major impairments e.g. quadropolegia, non-existent limbs, don't miss what they have never had. Having a fossilized brain full of preconceptions about major impairments makes them much more depressing than they need to be.
The arguments that I am (obviously not doing a good job of) presenting come from academic journals about disability rights. Put aside these intellectual concepts for a second, and look at the above words and remember that we are talking about a human being and their life. What other demographic is it acceptable, for none less than liberals* to speak about this way? How would you feel if someone described your life this way? Suppose you told them that you were happy, that you enjoyed your life despite your ravaged body, and they said they believed you but you could see in their eyes that they didn't? At some point plain sympathy turns to fear and becomes ugly.
*I believe I used the 'none less than' grammar correctly, but what I mean is that it is even more unusual for liberals to be insensitive to disparaging a minority demographic. But isn't it obvious that conservatives and liberals switch their usual arguments on this issue? Normally republicans use libertarian arguments and democrats argue for a tolerant and progressive society! But in this case the republicans fall back to a religious argument and the democrats take a libertarian one. I am presenting neither of the standard arguments, my arguments are secular, progressive, and in total disagreement with the democrats (who morph into libertarians on this issue.
And I see absolutely no loss of dignity in losing my mental abilities, nor do I care if other people find a loss of dignity in it (though I think you are misinterpreting the source of that loss of dignity) but that's no reason to stop me from doing what I please with MY life so long as I'm not treading on the rights of someone else.
Ok, but if there is no loss of dignity, then why would such a person kill themself? f95 put it this way:
To some extent this is simply because I define "myself" via my intellect; my body without my mind wouldn't be me, so from my point of view I would already be dead.
If there is no loss of dignity, then why kill your former body? There are lots of bodies that aren't you, would you also kill them if you had the right?
doing what I please with MY life so long as I'm not treading on the rights of someone else.
As you know, you can kill yourself in many ways without being bothered by the government. The question is whether the government should approve and or assist you in doing so. To frame the debate as anything else is dishonest, no one can stop you from killing yourself in America, they can only punish you for trying, which implies you failed, which implies you didn't try very hard. And since anyone can visit alt.suicide and get all the info and contacts they need, without any reasonable fear of the law, it is dishonest to claim that assisted-suicide opponents are working to keep suffering people from killing themselves, we are only working to keep the government that we elect, pay for, and pledge to honor and support from approving and assisting in suicide. Suicide != murder. Assisted-suicide = (murder + sends the wrong message to people with lives deemed suicide worthy).
If I were suffering from incurable pain I would choose to die. Nothing could be worse. It's no longer "living a life". That is unending torture.
Luckily this is very unlikely to ever happen, since only 3/60 people who chose state-assisted in Oregon in 2008 listed pain as a reason for ending their lives.
The other reason I would chose death is if I were completely paralyzed and was aware but unable to move or even communicate.
Fortunately no one in Oregon had it quite that bad, but based on the survey loss of autonomy and decreasing ability to participate in activities that made life enjoyable were the two biggest reasons for chosing death.
Recovering from a near total loss of actvities is difficult, but it is just a matter of having a flexible brain. After all, children who are born with major impairments e.g. quadropolegia, non-existent limbs, don't miss what they have never had. Having a fossilized brain full of preconceptions about major impairments makes them much more depressing than they need to be.
That is unending torture...That would also be hell and also torture, mental torture...When life gets to that point, it no longer has value, IMO...I could never force that kind of tortured hell on anyone.
The arguments that I am (obviously not doing a good job of) presenting come from academic journals about disability rights. Put aside these intellectual concepts for a second, and look at the above words and remember that we are talking about a human being and their life. What other demographic is it acceptable, for none less than liberals* to speak about this way? How would you feel if someone described your life this way? Suppose you told them that you were happy, that you enjoyed your life despite your ravaged body, and they said they believed you but you could see in their eyes that they didn't? At some point plain sympathy turns to fear and becomes ugly.
*I believe I used the 'none less than' grammar correctly, but what I mean is that it is even more unusual for liberals to be insensitive to disparaging a minority demographic. But isn't it obvious that conservatives and liberals switch their usual arguments on this issue? Normally republicans use libertarian arguments and democrats argue for a tolerant and progressive society! But in this case the republicans fall back to a religious argument and the democrats take a libertarian one. I am presenting neither of the standard arguments, my arguments are secular, progressive, and in total disagreement with the democrats (who morph into libertarians on this issue.