Sticking to the headline question:
"What do we know about neutrino-neutrino scattering?",
and not the OP body text, we can calculate what we expect to happen in the Standard Model as extended to include neutrinos to high precision. While it isn't a trivial calculation, it isn't that hard to calculate for either an elastic or inelastic collision (and no one is expecting the extreme parts per billion precision of the muon g-2 calculation, parts per thousand precision would be welcome and sufficient for a first attempt and unlike muon g-2 at a first attempt level of precision, hadronic QCD contributions which are the main source of uncertainty in the muon g-2 prediction, would be small enough to ignore in the calculations of predicted neutrino scatterings). At the calculation level, we can leverage the knowledge of physical constants and efficient calculation methods and the structure of the Standard Model from non-neutrino contexts to make our "educated guess" a very well informed one. Having such a narrow and precisely defined target signal to look for could also facilitate great efficiencies in designing the experimental setup.
And, there are enough experiments measuring neutrino properties that we can say with considerable comfort that neutrinos behave consistently with the neutrino extended Standard Model. In particular, there are lots of experiments that have searched for non-standard neutrino interactions, and while individually, no one experiment can rule out all possible non-standard neutrino interactions definitively, collectively, none of them have found statistically significant evidence of non-standard neutrino interactions that have been replicated and confirmed, although there have been occasional minor tensions interpreted as statistical flukes.
I would also quibble with the characterization of neutrinos as "invisible", although they are far harder to detect (especially at low energies) than charged particles, and than more massive neutral particles. We have detectors specifically designed to detect neutrinos and they do routinely detect neutrinos. They aren't very efficient (i.e. they detect only a modest percentage of neutrinos that pass near them) but they are not 0% efficient either.
As a practical matter it would be a very expensive experiment (because you have to increase the scale sufficiently to get a statistically significant number of detection events after all of the events you miss due to detector inefficiency). It would also require a very good characterization of the neutrino background from neutrinos other than the ones you are trying to collide that would swamp the signal you are looking for. But progress is being made at developing labs in places like deep mineshafts to reduce the background noise (e.g. from cosmic ray muons that produce neutrinos when they decay), and progress is also being made at characterizing the background accurately, for the purpose of direct dark matter detection experiments. This characterization of the neutrino background could be borrowed from these experiments.
Is this viable to do in a direct, brute force manner right now? Probably not.
But it isn't beyond the range of what might be possible to do in a laboratory setting at some point in the future. Also, someone might come up with a more subtle and efficient and tractable way to measure this in the future than just crudely shooting beams of neutrinos at each other and surrounding them with massive arrays of neutrino detectors.
Neutrino physics is the youngest part of the Standard Model. The discovery that they are massive and oscillate was only made in 1998, and we are still working out the approximate values of the last few physical constants that describe neutrino oscillation and mass now. Important parts of neutrino physics are a quarter century behind other parts of Standard Model physics. But that doesn't mean that we couldn't get there some day.