Ok, instead of "freezing time" just imagine the state of things at present at further and further distances from you. You see the sun as it was 8 minutes ago, but it exists now. Imagine how it is now.
You see, this is the problem. I can't imagine it now. I have absolutely no way of knowing it 'now'.
Any information form the sun is only pertinent to me in my frame of reference.
This is like a mathematical anomaly; if I launch a projectile against a wall the distance is always divisible by 2, yet the projectile will hit the wall.
Then, what is the definition of 'now'. If you are looking at the moon, if you are looking at a tree across the street, if you are looking at an object just before your eyes. The answer is 'no' to all of these.
That is why these type of conversations are fruitless. There is point, counter point, that will eventually get into a loop, and excuse the pun turn back on itself.
This reminds me of a question someone asked me a few days ago. "Why does light travel at a particular speed and not a kilometer / hr more or less".
My answer was simple, " I have no idea. Things just work in a particular way".
Furthermore, it may not even be a meaningful question to begin with.
This is exactly what I said!
Answers to some things can be meaningless, which poses the premise, some questions can be meaningless.
I am not being obnoxious or fecicious here but perhaps ask the same question on a philosophical or religious forum. Perhaps they can give you a better answer.
However, I still do appreciate your problem with the universe 'size' or barrier.
However, unless there is some new radical discovery, you just have to get use to the idea.
There is no other side, your perceived 'other side' is here.
"What you see is what you get".
As for dark matter or energy, probably a legitimate question. But probably should be started in a new thread. Doesn't quite fit into this thread.
But, that is the moderators decision.