Even though this is one of the first examples in chapter 4 a more complete reference would have helped get you a quicker response.
[tex]\begin{array}{l}<br />
\frac{{\partial f}}{{\partial x}} = 3{x^2}y - y{e^{xy}} \\ <br />
\frac{{\partial f}}{{\partial x\partial y}} = 3{x^2} - {e^{xy}} - xy{e^{xy}} \\ <br />
\end{array}[/tex]
So you understand how to take the first partial differential with respect to x or y.
I have shown the one with respect to x.
The second partial that you are having trouble with is formed by taking either the first differential with respect to x and differentiating it with respect to y or the other way round. The result is the same.
I have chosen to take the first partial with respect to x and then differentiate it with respect to y.
The first partial is formed from two terms
1)
[tex]3{x^2}y[/tex]
from which we get 3x2 since x is considered constant in this second differentiation.
2)[tex]y{e^{xy}}[/tex]
Which is the product of two functions of y, viz y and exy
This will yield two terms according to the product rule,
differentiating y with respect to -y yields 1 and so multiplied by exy yields the second term -exy
differentiating exy with respect to y yields xexy and so multiplied by -y yields -xyexy
which is the third term you are having trouble with. does this help?