The discussion centers on the rationale behind gravitons, questioning their necessity compared to geometric explanations of gravity. Participants debate whether a particle-based approach, inspired by the successes of quantum electrodynamics (QED) and quantum chromodynamics (QCD), is justified, especially given the lack of empirical evidence for gravitons. Concerns are raised about explaining phenomena like gravitational lensing using gravitons, with some arguing that current theories fail to provide satisfactory calculations or predictions. The conversation also touches on the challenges of formulating a realistic theory of quantized gravity, with some participants expressing skepticism about the utility of gravitons in practical physics. Overall, the thread highlights a divide between particle and geometric interpretations of gravity, emphasizing the need for clearer, computable explanations.