Yes, i realize that, but these dependencies seem conceptually very different to me. Since when are a source term and a metric interchangable concepts?
Yeah, but they are mathematically and physically different dependencies. Space is space and matter is matter.
If gravitons seek to dissolve the distinction between space and matter, that's an ambitious goal, and I am surprised i havnt seen it stated like that: ill believe it works when somone does a simulation involving gravitons, that doesn't depend on arguments such as 'yeah it reduces to the einstein field equations because of this general abstract nonsense, so actually, we are solving that instead. The linearized variant, yeah.'