What should I do if I regret taking a Co-Op and it's not the career path I want?

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Discussion Overview

The discussion revolves around the experiences and feelings of participants regarding co-op positions that do not align with their intended career paths. Participants share their personal experiences, reflections on the value of such positions, and seek advice on how to navigate their current situations.

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Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses regret for accepting a co-op position out of fear of not finding a job, realizing it does not align with their career goals.
  • Another participant shares a similar experience, stating they ended their co-op agreement after realizing it was not relevant to their degree or career path.
  • A third participant suggests that the current experience can still be valuable, emphasizing the importance of learning from the situation and remaining open to future possibilities.
  • This participant also highlights the uncertainty of career paths, suggesting that what one learns now may be useful in unexpected ways later on.
  • The original poster expresses a desire to finish the current session well and to communicate their feelings to their manager without damaging relationships.
  • There is a request for insights from those with hiring experience regarding undergraduate engineering co-ops.

Areas of Agreement / Disagreement

Participants generally agree on the value of learning from experiences, even if they do not align with initial career aspirations. However, there is no consensus on the best course of action moving forward, as individual circumstances and perspectives vary.

Contextual Notes

Participants' reflections are influenced by personal experiences and may depend on specific definitions of career paths and co-op expectations. The discussion does not resolve the complexities of navigating career decisions.

Who May Find This Useful

Students considering co-op positions, individuals reflecting on their career paths, and those interested in the perspectives of employers regarding undergraduate engineering co-ops.

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I was worried that I will not find a job this summer, so I took the first offer I got. (freshmans and sophomores, please don't make the same mistake, evaluate all other possible actions)

But the more time I spend doing my job, I realize just how far away from what I intend to do this job actually is. Of course, I will finish this session that I am working during the summer, but I am thinking of what is best for my future and realized that this is not the career path that I want to take.

Any opinions and or suggestions are welcomed, especially older engineers who do a bit of recruiting and hiring.

*Co-Ops are voluntary at my school
 
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I did the same thing after my sophomore year. I did a summer of co-op, and at the end of it I realized that I wasn't learning anything relevant to my degree or intended career path and decided to end the co-op agreement. My employer understood and everything worked out fine.
 
throwaway said:
But the more time I spend doing my job, I realize just how far away from what I intend to do this job actually is. Of course, I will finish this session that I am working during the summer, but I am thinking of what is best for my future and realized that this is not the career path that I want to take.
That sounds fine to me. You have learned something valuable about what you don't want to do, without getting stuck with any long-term consequences. Now spend the rest of your time learning whatever there is to learn from being where you are.

You don't have any idea what your "career path" will actually be. All you know is what you hope it will be. So treat this as "learning stuff that might come in useful one day", and get the most out of it that you can. Maybe in 20 or 30 years time it will turn out to be the most useful stuff that you ever learned. The only certain way to find out if that is true or not is stick around for 20 or 30 years and see what happens.

Remember the Richard Feynman quote: "Any subject can be absolutely fascinating. if only you study it in enough detail".
 
AlephZero said:
That sounds fine to me. You have learned something valuable about what you don't want to do, without getting stuck with any long-term consequences. Now spend the rest of your time learning whatever there is to learn from being where you are.

You don't have any idea what your "career path" will actually be. All you know is what you hope it will be. So treat this as "learning stuff that might come in useful one day", and get the most out of it that you can. Maybe in 20 or 30 years time it will turn out to be the most useful stuff that you ever learned. The only certain way to find out if that is true or not is stick around for 20 or 30 years and see what happens.

Remember the Richard Feynman quote: "Any subject can be absolutely fascinating. if only you study it in enough detail".



Thanks guys, I will think about this more. But right now, I plan to finish this session and do as well as I possibly can, and after my midterm review, I will talk to my manager and hope he understand where i am coming from. I really don't want to burn any bridges or disrespect anyone.

any other suggestions are welcome. Id like to see it from an employer's point of view if anyone here hires undergrad engineer coops.
 

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