RandallB said:
Several have pointed it out you chose to ignore it. Instant messages don’t travel in a frame; they do not have a speed.
You could say the speed was infinite in that frame (using the assumption that speed = distance/time, in the limit as the time goes to zero the speed goes to infinity). In any case, you don't have to worry about the speed, you can just worry about the time between the signal being sent at one location and the signal being received at another. If it is possible to send a signal such that the event of it being sent and the event of it being received are simultaneous in one frame, then assuming there is a nonzero spatial separation between the events in this frame, the simultaneity rules of relativity guarantee that there is another inertial frame where the event of the signal being received actually happens at an earlier time than the event of it being sent. And according to the first postulate of relativity, if there is one inertial frame where it is physically possible to send signals such that they will be received before they are sent, this must be possible in
every inertial frame. Do you disagree with any of the above?
If not, consider a situation where you are traveling away from me inertially at some sublight speed, and I send you a signal such that the event of it being sent by me and the event of it being received by you are simultaneous in my frame, which means the event of it being received will happen before the event of it being sent in your frame. If you immediately send a reply such that the event of it being sent by you and the event of it being received by me are simultaneous in
your frame (which must be possible if it was possible in my frame, according to the first postulate), then the reply will be received before it was sent in my frame. By arranging the distances and the (sublight) speeds of my ship and your ship in the right way, it is possible for me to receive your reply before I sent the original message. I can illustrate this with a numerical example if you have doubts about this.
RandallB said:
You cannot assume something far away but not moving in your common Ref Frame will receive an instant message it at the same Clock Time as you sent it because you have already agreed to the simultaneity rules right.
The whole point of an "instantaneous signal" is that it is received at the same time it is sent, otherwise it wouldn't be instantaneous. Of course, because of the simultaneity rules, a signal which travels instantaneously in one frame wouldn't travel instantaneously in all frames; in some frames it would seem to travel FTL but forward in time (for example, in my frame I might receive the signal 10 light years away from the position it was sent, but only 5 years after the time it was sent), in other frames it would actually be received before it was sent. But according to the first postulate of relativity, anything which is possible in one frame must be possible in all frames. Of course, you're free to imagine that the first postulate is actually incorrect when applied to instantaneous signalling, in which case you can avoid the problem of causality violations; but in this case, you are imagining that the theory of relativity is incorrect.
RandallB said:
You could calculate the correct time that instant massage would arrive by using the correct preferred frame.
If there is a preferred frame for instantaneous signalling (i.e. if it is possible to build a device such that signals can be received at the same moment they are sent according to one frame's definition of simultaneity, but it is not possible to build a device such that signals can be received at the same moment they are sent according to any other frame's definition of simultaneity), then that means relativity is incorrect. If relativity is correct, all laws of physics must work the same way in every inertial frame, including the laws governing an instantaneous signal transmitter.