Fredrik said:
No. This was answered earlier in the thread. If it's rigid in one inertial frame, it isn't rigid in others. Suppose that it's rigid in a particular frame. When we give it a push, all the different parts will begin their acceleration at the same time. That means that in other frames, the different parts will begin their acceleration at different times. That makes it "not rigid" in those frames.
So it doesn't matter what it's made of. The properties of spacetime make it impossible for rigid bodies to exist.
The scenario we're discussing in this thread is keeping the rod parallel to the wall at all times in the wall's rest frame. This is only possible if the different parts are all pushed at the same time. We can't just push one part of the rod and let the force propagate through the rod, because the speed of that propagation would have to be infinite. (Otherwise the rod doesn't remain straight, and we have already said that it does).
I wasn't regarding this kind of independence. I mean, I know things may appear nonrigid to one person but completely rigid to another.
Phrack mentioned kinematics, and that the application of force on the rod will turn the problem into a kinematic one. He supplements this with his bead-on-a-string thought experiment. The bead-on-a-string thinking can go both ways: with different observations or with the introduction of kinematic ideas (which would complicate things greatly and unnecessarily).
Since an external force ("gentle push") acts on our rod; and must necessarily on the center of the rod if we wish to keep the rod parallel to the plane it's moving upon, then I propose the rod will fall directly into the hole, but front-end first, relative to the person on the rod.
The man beside the slit OTOH will see the event taking place with the rod always parallel to the slit.
The rod, according to the person riding it OTOH, will seem to enter nose-first, then the remaining of the rod in a parabolic fashion, until the end of the rod falls in.
The person on the rod will be scared at first, as the slit will look radically shortened--way too short for his rod--right before it enters the slit. But as his rod appears to
bend into it, he is relieved.
The person standing beside the slit sees a very short rod (much shorter in appearance than when he took his measurements with the rod at rest) entering effortlessly into the slit without incident... :)