Have You Seen Danger? - Concerned about Health

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Concerns arose in the forum regarding a member's prolonged absence, with discussions highlighting the importance of establishing a contact network for members to check on each other in case of emergencies. The member in question, referred to as Danger, had not been online since June 3, prompting worries about his health and well-being, especially given past health issues. Some members suggested he might be facing internet access problems or personal issues, while others expressed a desire to locate him and ensure he was safe. The conversation shifted towards the emotional bonds formed within the community, emphasizing the need for a buddy system to facilitate communication and support among members. Ultimately, Danger reappeared, explaining that he had been preoccupied with an online game, alleviating the concerns of his friends and highlighting the strong connections within the forum.
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His last time online was 6-3, with his health, I'm very worried.
 
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Evo said:
His last time online was 6-3, with his health, I'm very worried.
Nope, and while we have compatible interests in many areas, I never got reliable info for personal contact. My bad.
 
I guess that I am especially paranoid because my brother in law had the same condition, then got an infection, and suddenly died within a couple of weeks.

So SHOW UP and prove me wrong Danger.

He's probably just having ISP problems or on a vacation.
 
If I can lure him to the states, I'll treat him to a few days of really high-power firearms. 10mm Auto pistols and over-loaded .45-70 rifle should be fun.
 
turbo-1 said:
If I can lure him to the states, I'll treat him to a few days of really high-power firearms. 10mm Auto pistols and over-loaded .45-70 rifle should be fun.
He'd love that, the local constabulatory confiscated his firearms.

I swear I really have to get that list of emergency contacts for GD members. I feel so close to everyone, yet now realize I don't know how to check on some of you should anything happen! :cry:
 
It's my understanding that he's in my neck of the woods somewhere. If anyone has anything more precise than that, I can see what I can do.
 
GeorginaS said:
It's my understanding that he's in my neck of the woods somewhere. If anyone has anything more precise than that, I can see what I can do.
We need to have some kind of contact network, even if it is "should I disappear, contact member so and so".

And anyone that disappears for 2 weeks without clearing it with me first will be BANNED.

I'm a WORRIER!
 
I can recall from my weak memories that he was using his wife internet and did not have his own...
 
rootX said:
I can recall from my weak memories that he was using his wife internet and did not have his own...
That was quite a while back.
 
  • #10
Yeah, his wife isn't his wife anymore as far as I know. I haven't heard from him in a long time. But, it's hard to know with him. He has from time to time run into problems with internet access or computers, which limits him from getting online to let us know all is okay.

On the other hand, his ongoing health issues are also cause for concern. I hope that someone he knows in real life has been told that there are a whole lot of us who are online friends who would want to know if anything bad ever happened.

(And, yep, Georgina and I are each others' online emergency contacts. :biggrin:)
 
  • #11
I'm sure he's fine. It's good you worry though Evo.

EDIT: If anything shall happen to me I'll make sure my family knows to make a post here :-p hahahaha
 
  • #12
This is weird - how does anyone know anyone else on here...
 
  • #13
Mu naught said:
This is weird - how does anyone know anyone else on here...

We all talk to each other frequently... There are some members in the forums who if they stopped posting I would wonder about them. It wasn't so long ago that a member of this forum had passed away.
 
  • #14
Yeah, we're like one big dysfunctional family. :smile:

People here form attachments and friendships. I would worry if Zom disappeared, he's like the son I never had. You can't pick your relatives. :-p
 
  • #15
Some of us even manage to meet ftf. A few years back Ivan Seeking and I met on PF but soon discovered that we live about 15mi apart. We have become good friends in the non virtual world.
 
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Evo said:
Yeah, we're like one big dysfunctional family. :smile:

People here form attachments and friendships. I would worry if Zom disappeared, he's like the son I never had. You can't pick your relatives. :-p

Heyyyyyyy!
 
  • #17
We actually conceived of an online buddy system many, many years ago when a couple of message board people disappeared and no one knew what had happened. It's really distressing to spend so much time with people, and get to know them -- in a manner -- and then simply have them disappear. It truly hurts.

So, yeah, Moonbear and I have been on message boards together for well over a decade and have developed enough trust and friendship to exchange phone numbers and e-mail addresses for people close to us to get contacted. For instance, she has my best friend's e-mail address, and she would absolutely know if anything happened to me and knows to tell Moonbear. Or, we can just call each other. It's a good system, and I wish everyone would adopt at least one person who other people could follow up with.

We develop real feelings and real attachments to people online. We shouldn't disregard that or treat it lightly.
 
  • #18
Integral said:
Some of us even manage to meet ftf. A few years back Ivan Seeking and I met on PF but soon discovered that we live about 15mi apart. We have become good friends in the non virtual world.

I've met members of this forum and they even came to stay with us.
Make buddies here is all I do. I don't physics! :rolleyes:
 
  • #19
But back to the subject at hand, if anyone can narrow down or give me some clues where I might start looking for Danger around here, I'd certainly do it. If anyone has a real name or area of the city I might start looking in. I could call local hospitals and whatnot. If anyone has something and would like to PM it to me, please do. I'd give it a shot.
 
  • #20
The last I talk to him he mentioned having employment issues. I feel bad mentioning it since I am not sure if he had said, or intended to say, anything publicly about it but I do not think he would mind much. I am thinking, and hoping, that it is only monetary issues that is keeping him from internet access. Best case scenario he is gainfully employed and too busy to hit the library but not made enough money to start paying for internet access yet.
 
  • #21
GeorginaS said:
But back to the subject at hand, if anyone can narrow down or give me some clues where I might start looking for Danger around here, I'd certainly do it. If anyone has a real name or area of the city I might start looking in. I could call local hospitals and whatnot. If anyone has something and would like to PM it to me, please do. I'd give it a shot.
Scorpa (used to be active here a couple of years ago) has met and corresponded with Danny (Danger) a few times, if memory serves. You could send her a PM and see if she responds. Also, a post in a thread she started might send her an email if she had notification alerts set up.
 
  • #22
I come back to creep the posts for the first time in forever and this is what I find :( ? GeorginaS check your inbox.
 
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scorpa said:
I come back to creep the posts for the first time in forever and this is what I find :( ? GeorginaS check your inbox.

Whoa, what a weird coincidence :eek:.
 
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GeorginaS said:
But back to the subject at hand, if anyone can narrow down or give me some clues where I might start looking for Danger around here, I'd certainly do it. If anyone has a real name or area of the city I might start looking in. I could call local hospitals and whatnot. If anyone has something and would like to PM it to me, please do. I'd give it a shot.

That's sad for people who are really friends of Dan's. :frown:
 
  • #26
scorpa said:
I come back to creep the posts for the first time in forever and this is what I find :( ? GeorginaS check your inbox.
Scorpa! LTNS!

How have you been?
 
  • #27
Evo said:
Scorpa! LTNS!

How have you been?

Been good, just been very busy the past while with working nearly full time and school on top of that. Just graduated university, working now and looking into going back for my masters in January in either medical genetics or molecular microbiology. Beggar for punishment apparently :)
 
  • #28
scorpa said:
Been good, just been very busy the past while with working nearly full time and school on top of that. Just graduated university, working now and looking into going back for my masters in January in either medical genetics or molecular microbiology. Beggar for punishment apparently :)
Wonderful, sounds like a very bright future ahead of you. Drop in whenever you can. You are missed.
 
  • #29
There are notary publics who specialize in online life, you deposit all your online accounts with them so that they can take care of it in case it is needed.

I hope we hear something about Danger soon.
 
  • #30
If nobody still has contact details, a person could be tracked down by taking their IP from the logs, telephoning their ISP and appealing for a letter to be passed on to the account owner. Or other ways. See what 4chan can do..
 
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  • #31
Yes, well, anyone on staff here who can run a recent IP address could come up with something helpful.

I got a couple of PM leads, one of which gave me a place to start. It's not where I thought, so it's not close to me, but I have a friend in that area, so I have him doing some digging for me. We don't have a whole bunch to go on, but I'm looking. :smile:
 
  • #32
Danger:cry::cry::cry:
 
  • #33
GeorginaS said:
Yes, well, anyone on staff here who can run a recent IP address could come up with something helpful.

I got a couple of PM leads, one of which gave me a place to start. It's not where I thought, so it's not close to me, but I have a friend in that area, so I have him doing some digging for me. We don't have a whole bunch to go on, but I'm looking. :smile:

Good work!
A medal for you...
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  • #34
GeorginaS said:
Yes, well, anyone on staff here who can run a recent IP address could come up with something helpful.

I got a couple of PM leads, one of which gave me a place to start. It's not where I thought, so it's not close to me, but I have a friend in that area, so I have him doing some digging for me. We don't have a whole bunch to go on, but I'm looking. :smile:
Thanks for doing this Georgina!
 
  • #35
Okay, well, if the mentors can try an IP address lead, that might help. There's a really amazing search site that narrows IP addresses down to the physical Earth co-ordinates of the originating computer, not just the ISP. So maybe try that and give me a clue.

Every piece of information I've received so far hasn't netted anything, I'm sorry to say. Borg pointed out a thread where Danger appeared to give his first and last name on the thread, and I found someone with the same first initial and same last name not far from me. I phoned and left a message for the nice man who was kind enough to phone me back just to let me know he wasn't the person I'm looking for. So.

Another lead had Danger farther away from me, so I contacted a co-worker in another city who dispatched a friend who lives in that town to ask around, with only a first name and potential nickname to go on. No luck there either. So.

All I can suggest now is maybe the IP search to narrow things down, because, truly, with no specific location to check and only a first name to go on, it's really difficult to find someone.

I'm sorry, I'd hoped to be be able to assist more. Maybe I can find the thread where he mentioned to me that he lived close to me, I could get a clue from that. I don't know.

Sorry guys.
 
  • #36
Thank you Georgina. I can't think of anything that would help, except he worked for a check cashing store, moved into his Mom's house, had a cat and some interesting cars.
 
  • #37
I think he also had an interesting relationship - but I am not sure if the details has been officially posted, so I am not going to add them here; could be he gave them on chat or something. Or even it wasn't him. But I doubt it will make looking for him easier. Especially as the relationship ended when his GF moved to her Mom several states away. Or something like that.

Browsing his older threads may give some more leads - like here and here. And here is the information about ending his relationship.
 
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  • #38
Did he ever mention the name of the bar that he always went to? He posted a picture of him and W there at Halloween. They would surely know him.
 
  • #39
Borek, I think that you've got some pretty good leads. I'm sure that the hospital won't give out personal information but, maybe they would be willing to pass a message - especially if they see this thread and how much he is missed.
 
  • #40
Borg said:
Borek, I think that you've got some pretty good leads. I'm sure that the hospital won't give out personal information but, maybe they would be willing to pass a message - especially if they see this thread and how much he is missed.
The problem is that it was relatives of his girlfriend that were hospitalized, no relationship to Danger.
 
  • #41
Evo said:
The problem is that it was relatives of his girlfriend that were hospitalized, no relationship to Danger.

That would definitely make it tougher. Still, we might be able to get a real name andor last known address.
 
  • #42
I doubt that, Borg. The heart surgery hospital in Edmonton he would have been talking about would have been the University of Alberta hospital. It was a someone from his ex-girlfriend's family who had the surgery. They'd have no record of him nor would they give it out. Hospitals don't get information about every relative and friend who visits someone in hospital, nor would they even keep that information for long.

What's puzzling me, though, is his description about driving over 3 hours to get to the hospital in Edmonton. I'm trying to figure out which direction he'd be coming from. If he was in Calgary or close by, they have facilities equal to here. I don't know why they'd make the trip to Edmonton. His ex's family, he said, lives 500-odd-km away from where they were, but for some reason I thought that W's family was in Ontario, and that's much farther than 500km. Actually, re-reading those threads just further confused where I can think of where he'd be.
 
  • #43
When Danger first started posting here he listed a town in Alberta I'd never heard of as his location. Later he changed his location to Calgary.

A look at a map of Calgary and the town of Cochrane to the north west rings loud bells: the image of his avatar popped into my mind when I read the name.
 
  • #44
GeorginaS said:
What's puzzling me, though, is his description about driving over 3 hours to get to the hospital in Edmonton. I'm trying to figure out which direction he'd be coming from. If he was in Calgary or close by, they have facilities equal to here.

The family might have been in Edmonton though even if Danger did not live there so it makes sense with the info I gave you. Either way I believe the Stollery in Edmonton has the leading heart program and most children with such issues would go there.
 
  • #45
scorpa said:
The family might have been in Edmonton though even if Danger did not live there so it makes sense with the info I gave you. Either way I believe the Stollery in Edmonton has the leading heart program and most children with such issues would go there.

You're right, Scorpa, I was leaving out the small-person aspect of the heart surgery issue. Of course they'd be at the Stollery.

And yes, they'd come here if the family was here.

I'm still waiting to hear back from my Southern Alberta folks. A last name would be a huge help.
 
  • #46
There is no picture, but he claimed to own a very specific car:

https://www.physicsforums.com/showthread.php?t=124496&page=2

I wonder if hobbyists in the area would not know where it stands. But that's a loooooong shot, and we can't be sure of the area in the first place (his Mom's backyard can be anywhere).

Edit: could be it is not that long shot, could be that's the house he moved to when they split with W: https://www.physicsforums.com/showpost.php?p=1383585&postcount=2

Edit 2: https://www.physicsforums.com/showpost.php?p=1368063&postcount=14 - still, not knowing his name this information is not worth much.

Edit 3: https://www.physicsforums.com/showpost.php?p=1205255&postcount=10 - house was built in 1911 and it is in southern Alberta.

Edit 4: https://www.physicsforums.com/showpost.php?p=527019&postcount=26 - and it was rebuilt later.

Edit 5: https://www.physicsforums.com/showpost.php?p=1349632&postcount=11 - and it is at the end of the street.

Geez, I had to stop, I am grasping at straws. But I am looking for a post where Danger wrote he needs to get the power/water back to the house, as he needs to move there.
 
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  • #47
Danger is shown under "Currently Active Users" for General Discussion on my screen.

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  • #48
Yes he is!
 
  • #49
turbo-1 said:
If I can lure him to the states, I'll treat him to a few days of really high-power firearms. 10mm Auto pistols and over-loaded .45-70 rifle should be fun.

I'll settle for nothing less than an S&W .500 and a Barret M107. (What... you thought that I'd be a cheap date?)
Anyhow, you'll have to bring them up here. I really am not allowed in the US.

Evo said:
I would worry if Zom disappeared, he's like the son I never had.

If I were your son, you couldn't wean me with a crowbar...

HOLY CRAP!
It never crossed my mind that a bit of absence would result in such turmoil. The simple fact of the matter is that I got hooked on a stupid game.
I'll try to set the record straight from the ground up.
W left with another guy on Labour Day and moved back to Lloydminster. I moved back into my ancestral house, which my mother still owned (but she was in a care facility). She died on Oct. 16. She would have been 97 on Oct. 28, so that was neither a tragedy nor unexpected. I therefore now own the property, but only for another year (or 3 if...) It had to be mortgaged in order to obtain the money to make it habitable. If things work out, I can renew that for another 2-year term; otherwise, it has to be sold in a year.
I've always had my own internet, but while I was with W it was transferred to her phone bill. It is now all my own again.
No sympathy for the break-up, please, since I've been a lot happier since then. The weird thing about that is that the in-laws who were friends with me still are, and won't speak to her.
Zoobie... I can't recall ever mentioning it, but you're correct; I'm in Cochrane. Now forget that I said that so I won't have to shoot you.
I became unemployed at the end of '08, and have been on Social Assistance ever since (Welfare in US terms). I'm in the process of applying for AISH (Assured Income for the Severely Handicapped). I can still get around, but have to use my walker. I really want to get my driver's license this summer (I haven't had one in 6 years or so). The stupid thing about that is that, after 38 years of driving, I have to start with a learner's permit. That requires a licensed driver riding shotgun. If I had one of those available, I'd just hire him as a chauffeur. I might just take my chances on that, though. Driving in my current situation would be a mandatory 5 years in jail; driving with a learner's without backup would be a small fine. I don't think that a 5 year penalty should be much of a deterent to me, though, since I have about half a year to live (unless I can quit smoking; I'm working on that, in order to further my delusion of immortality).
Scorpa and I never met. I tried to set up a meeting when we had to go to the hospital in Edmonchuck, but she was going home at the same time. Some day, I hope.
I hope that everyone is now up to speed. A few of you have my e-mail address, and I thought that a few more had my full contact information. I will henceforth provide such to those that I thought already had it.
As for the absence... 'Adventure Quest'. It's a fairly primitive game, but one that suits my needs for now. I can go to bed in the middle of a fight and pick it up the next day. I find it very limiting, though, since the only options in any encounter are to fight or run. It's my first exposure to on-line gaming, though, so maybe soon I'll be ready for something more realistic (as long as it is turn-based).
Simply, I lost track of time in a huge fashion. That has always been a problem for me, but seems to have become even worse of late. I've been planning to file my income tax form, which I think was due some time in April... then my friend stopped by today and invited me to a Canada Day party tomorrow. Unless things have gone sideways since the last couple of hundred years, that means that tomorrow (today, by the time this is posted) is July. (Happy Freedom Festival to Hypatia, if they still do that.)
To those who e-mailed me, I hope that this covered most of your questions. I will respond to each of you individually some time soon.
Thanks to everyone for the concern.
 
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  • #50
Thanks, Dan. Success with the adventures.
 
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