Loren Booda said:
The term "retarded" is now referred to as "intellectually disabled." A respectful mouthful.
Indeed... and Psychopaths, became Sociopaths, and now with the SAME (or nearly identical) DSM/international diagnostic criteria, they 'suffer from Antisocial Personality Disorder'. These are still the same people of course.
Of course, when someone with no empathy or impulse control is doing something nasty to you and yours, the fine distinction of the semantics probably is a cold comfort. Shying away from the word retarded simply means we're moving further away from the truth. They're not 'disabled' as though they'd been hit by a truck or falling carbonaceous condrite (haven't we all been there. lol. lol. *dead silence*), they were born (or developed) with that contra-stacked deck.
I know you're not advocating 'PC speech' in this context, but I wish we as a society would work to clear common misconceptions about mental illness, retardation, autism (classical, not the full 'spectrum') which do real harm. The annoying and sad point for me is that especially in the community of people with Down's Syndrome, Fragile X, etc... plenty are living long productive lives now and frankly need protection from poor healthcare (a la fight clubs in texas and general neglect everywhere), and not impolite speech. The people I've encountered who resent the term "retarded" are:
1.) Relatives and friends of people who are developmentally retarded (full term) and...
2.) People with learning disabilities, low-average intelligence, who are NOT developmentally retarded, but have been insulted as such.
Of course, it's a better rhetorical position to say, "Roger is offended because he IS intellectually challenged, NOT retarded!" than, "People hurt MY feelings because that word has been used as an insult." Of course, any word can be perverted to become an insult, and amusingly the other way around. For instance, "Who Dat" now so famous for The Saints, was often a gag bit in Minstril Shows. Yeah, not the prettiest past for a cheer. People prefer to focus on the musical history with 'band callng' instead of people in black-face seeing a ghost, saying, "Who dat?! Who dey?!" and then acting like a frightened child. I'm not making that up... sad but true. >:(
Instead of appreciating the venom behind the slur 'Retard' which is what we all know the insult is (not 'that person is retarded', right?), and decoupling it from a harmless medical term... we get Political Correctness.