Are you an optimist or a pessimist/cynic?

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The discussion centers on the dichotomy between optimism and pessimism in overall life disposition. Participants express varying views on whether one can embody both traits simultaneously, with some arguing that it's a logical contradiction. Many contributors identify as optimists, appreciating the positive aspects of life, while others lean towards pessimism, often finding joy in unexpected outcomes when their negative expectations are not met. The conversation highlights the complexity of human perspectives, suggesting that individual experiences and mindsets significantly influence how people interpret the same information. Some participants propose that cynicism should be viewed separately from pessimism, noting that life experiences can shift one's outlook over time. The poll initiated in the thread is critiqued for being overly simplistic, with suggestions to include a "realist" option to better capture the nuances of individual dispositions. Overall, the dialogue reflects a rich exploration of how optimism and pessimism manifest in people's lives and the interplay of these attitudes with personal experiences.

Are you an optimist or a pessimist?

  • An optimist

    Votes: 9 45.0%
  • A pessimist/cynic

    Votes: 5 25.0%
  • Other

    Votes: 6 30.0%

  • Total voters
    20
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  • #31
Mark44 said:
I agree, which is why I think the poll is silly, to put it bluntly.

Well, this poll was primarily for entertainment purposes, instead of being a well designed survey question as befit a statistician (although I don't have too much experience designing survey questionnaires). At least that's my excuse! :-p
 
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  • #32
pinball1970 said:
The poll is a bit too either or

agreed ... pessimism and cynical should be separate

I used to be very optimistic but with age and life experience, the cynicism streak in me has grown

cyn|ic¦al
[ˈsɪnɪk(ə)l]

ADJECTIVE
  1. believing that The Majority of people are motivated purely by self-interest;
  2. distrustful of human sincerity or integrity.
Bolded = my addition, as I know not everyone is that way

but I wouldn't say that I am overly pessimistic
 
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  • #33
I am a super pessimist...almost about everything, including myself. That's why I work hard.
 
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  • #34
davenn said:
agreed ... pessimism and cynical should be separate

I used to be very optimistic but with age and life experience, the cynicism streak in me has grown

but I wouldn't say that I am overly pessimistic
I know exactly what you mean, we old more miserable as get older, we smile less get more illnesses/depression and our expectations of our fellow men decline because we see history repeat itself again and again. Basically we are beaten into the ground. I used a T-shirt that said "a pessimist is what an optimist calls a realist" I thought it was quite clever Now I am just old to wear a T shirt like that that.
 
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  • #35
pinball1970 said:
I used a T-shirt that said "a pessimist is what an optimist calls a realist" I thought it was quite clever

"used to have" that is, I forgot to mention general senility.
 
  • #36
pinball1970 said:
I know exactly what you mean, we old more miserable as get older, we smile less get more illnesses/depression and our expectations of our fellow men decline because we see history repeat itself again and again.Basically we are beaten into the ground. I used a T-shirt that said "a pessimist is what an optimist calls a realist" I thought it was quite cleverNow I am just old to wear a T shirt like that that.

Curiously enough, some of the most optimistic people I've met are senior citizens (i.e. over the age of 65). Some of the most pessimistic people I've met are those in their 20s.
 
  • #37
pinball1970 said:
I try to be optimistic about stuff but it gets harder as you get older

The poll is a bit too either or

+1
How about adding Realist as an option to the poll?
Where you weight your odds realisticly.
 
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  • #38
I'm mostly optimistic, although, not overly optimistic. For instance, I don't believe in free meals, figuratively speaking, but they are welcome.

As for cynicism - I.. it depends. Depends on the sort of people one is surrounded by.I am fully aware of the selfish pricks that are out there, but in conjunction with my (un)healthy dose of optimism, I TRY (underline, circle, bold, font 28) to see the better in people. I want to believe most of us are benign creatures, but..it's hard sometimes. I also have to remind myself that teenagers aren't people, but teenagers. They'll come around..eventually.
 
  • #39
A balance of both.
 
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  • #40
I vote for Realist.
 
  • #41
I consider myself a realist. If I see something to be optimistic about, I'm optimistic. If I don't I can be the opposite. Although, I do generally lean more towards optimism.
 

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