Are you an optimist or a pessimist/cynic?

[StatGuy2000]

Hi everyone! I wanted to ask you whether, overall in your disposition, you are an optimist or a pessimist/cynic. Part of the reason I'm asking is that I have the distinct impression that many here on PF tend towards pessimism or cynicism, but perhaps I may be mistaken.

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[Borek]

Why not both?

 

[StatGuy2000]

Why not both?

You cannot be both a (general) optimist and a pessimist/cynic -- that is a logical contradiction. (you can be optimistic or pessimistic/cynical about specific subjects -- I'm talking about overall life view or disposition).

 

[Borek]

Thank you, Cpt. Obvious

 

[david2]

Optimist for sure. I see the good in almost everything. I like cynicism for example.

 

[fresh_42]

Of course being cynical is independent of the other two properties. And I'm pretty sure most people are not always optimistic or always pessimistic. E.g. I appreciate cynicism and sarcasm. The rest is much more complicate to answer than by a yes or no.

 

[Vanadium 50]

An optimist gets only unpleasant surprises; a pessimist only pleasant ones.

 

[StatGuy2000]

An optimist gets only unpleasant surprises; a pessimist only pleasant ones.

Not necessarily -- pessimists by their nature will downplay or undervalue (sometimes to extreme levels) whatever pleasant or positive experiences they may experience or witness. Pessimists will also more likely be left in a state of despair which may make them unable to see the positive characteristics in the world.

 

[Evo]

Not necessarily -- pessimists by their nature will downplay or undervalue (sometimes to extreme levels) whatever pleasant or positive experiences they may experience or witness. Pessimists will also more likely be left in a state of despair which may make them unable to see the positive characteristics in the world.

I would disagree, I would say that I am very pessimistic, always expecting the worst, so I am always elated when things do not go badly as expected.

 

[fresh_42]

I would say that I am very pessimistic ...

There must be a reason why most of us like Marvin:
"Here I am with a brain the size of a planet and they ask me to pick up a piece of paper."

 

[Tom.G]

Not necessarily -- pessimists by their nature will downplay or undervalue (sometimes to extreme levels) whatever pleasant or positive experiences they may experience or witness. Pessimists will also more likely be left in a state of despair which may make them unable to see the positive characteristics in the world.

A link to supporting research perhaps?

 

[StatGuy2000]

A link to supporting research perhaps?

I am not a researcher in social psychology, and therefore have not conducted research in these areas. My observation in this thread is based purely on anecdotal observations that I have made (and therefore amounts to speculation), so shouldn't be taken as definitive by any means. So take my statements for what it is worth.

 

[DennisN]

I found it difficult to choose, so I chose "other". I think I am fundamentally an optimist (at least when it comes to mood), but I can also get pessimistic. (Edit: I changed my vote to optimist, I think that is more accurate.)

And, almost always, things could be worse.

 

[BillTre]

I would say I'm a cynical optimist (other).
Optimistic about many things, but cynical about others (including some people's understandings of things).

 

[fresh_42]

Optimism is merely a lack of information.

 

[PeroK]

The difference between an optimist and a pessimist is that the optimist believes we live in the best possible world; and the pessimist fears this is true.

 

[dkotschessaa]

I put other. I consider myself and optimist, but I'm also skeptical/empirical. I am optimistic in the long term, ('things will work out/we will figure it out/we'll get through it") but on a case by case basis I am skeptical about outcomes until I have evidence to support my viewpoint. i.e. I don't jump up and down if I hear good news, I kind of wait for more verification or want to know what that 'catch' is going to be.

Interestingly, now that I think about it, I think my wife is the opposite.. More pessimistic overall, but gets very excited about little opportunities. I wonder if that's why we make a perfect match?

-Dave K

 

[StatGuy2000]

Optimism is merely a lack of information.

If so, does pessimism imply being better informed?

 

[Mark44]

Optimism is merely a lack of information.

If so, does pessimism imply being better informed?

I don't buy either of these. Given an identical collection of information, one person could be optimistic and another could be pessimistic. It's a matter of the mindset of the individual, rather than the presence or absence of information.

 

[StatGuy2000]

I don't buy either of these. Given an identical collection of information, one person could be optimistic and another could be pessimistic. It's a matter of the mindset of the individual, rather than the presence or absence of information.

That is precisely my point, and thus why I started this poll to begin with -- to get a sense of whether PF members who choose to participate tend to have an optimistic or pessimistic mindset.

 

[dkotschessaa]

I don't buy either of these. Given an identical collection of information, one person could be optimistic and another could be pessimistic. It's a matter of the mindset of the individual, rather than the presence or absence of information.

I agree with this in principle, but I think the optimist and pessimist do have different experiences that may color their interpretation of the received information. In that sense they do not have exactly the same information.

 

[fresh_42]

I don't buy either of these.

You mean, I should have taken this question more seriously?

 

[dkotschessaa]

You mean, I should have taken this question more serious?

Nah, because your answer, even if it was meant jokingly, is a view that people do hold!

 

[Mark44]

I agree with this in principle, but I think the optimist and pessimist do have different experiences that may color their interpretation of the received information. In that sense they do not have exactly the same information.

Which is not what I said; namely, that both are given the same information (or undergo the same experience).

 

[Mark44]

You mean, I should have taken this question more seriously?

I misunderstood... I thought you were being serious. Regarding the question itself, we are in agreement.

 

[dkotschessaa]

Which is not what I said; namely, that both are given the same information (or undergo the same experience).

Just to clarify:

"given an identical collection of information" i.e. two people receive the same set of data, i.e. a letter in the mail saying "You won a vacation"
"experience" in my case, meaning the background of the individual - Person A has won many vacations, Person B has always found these things to be scams.

Person A will view the situation with optimism, person B will not. The received information is the same, the experience is not. They are not *really* operating on the same information overall.

 

[fresh_42]

I misunderstood... I thought you were being serious. Regarding the question itself, we are in agreement.

Well, occasionally I do think this phrase is true from time to time. It's more that I don't like - not to use more harsh verbs - statements which combines all quantors with humans. In my experience all sentences "All <insert a group of your choice> are <insert an adjective of your choice>" are doomed to be wrong, as long as they're not tautological. I am pessimistic about the weather tomorrow, but optimistic, that it won't freeze. And like this, it is with many things, it heavily depends on the specific question.

 

[Mark44]

Person A will view the situation with optimism, person B will not. The received information is the same, the experience is not. They are not *really* operating on the same information overall.

The scenario you gave might be more related to cynicism vs. gullibility rather than optimism vs. pessimism.

Here's what I would consider a better example:
Persons O and P each buy a lottery ticket, and both tickets win $10,000.
Person O thinks, "Man, I can pay off some debts and maybe even have enough to take that vacation I couldn't afford before."
Person P thinks, "Bummer, now I'll be in a higher tax bracket, plus my deadbeat brother-in-law will be hitting me up for a loan."

Same information, same experience -- different states of mind.

 

[Mark44]

Well, occasionally I do think this phrase is true from time to time. It's more that I don't like - not to use more harsh verbs - statements which combines all quantors with humans. In my experience all sentences "All <insert a group of your choice> are <insert an adjective of your choice>" are doomed to be wrong, as long as they're not tautological. I am pessimistic about the weather tomorrow, but optimistic, that it won't freeze. And like this, it is with many things, it heavily depends on the specific question.

I agree, which is why I think the poll is silly, to put it bluntly.

 

[pinball1970]

I try to be optimistic about stuff but it gets harder as you get older

The poll is a bit too either or

 

[StatGuy2000]

I agree, which is why I think the poll is silly, to put it bluntly.

Well, this poll was primarily for entertainment purposes, instead of being a well designed survey question as befit a statistician (although I don't have too much experience designing survey questionnaires). At least that's my excuse!

 

[davenn]

The poll is a bit too either or

agreed ... pessimism and cynical should be separate

I used to be very optimistic but with age and life experience, the cynicism streak in me has grown

cyn|ic¦al
[ˈsɪnɪk(ə)l]

ADJECTIVE

1. believing that The Majority of people are motivated purely by self-interest;
2. distrustful of human sincerity or integrity.

Bolded = my addition, as I know not everyone is that way

but I wouldn't say that I am overly pessimistic

 

[HAYAO]

I am a super pessimist...almost about everything, including myself. That's why I work hard.

 

[pinball1970]

agreed ... pessimism and cynical should be separate

I used to be very optimistic but with age and life experience, the cynicism streak in me has grown

but I wouldn't say that I am overly pessimistic

I know exactly what you mean, we old more miserable as get older, we smile less get more illnesses/depression and our expectations of our fellow men decline because we see history repeat itself again and again. Basically we are beaten into the ground. I used a T-shirt that said "a pessimist is what an optimist calls a realist" I thought it was quite clever Now I am just old to wear a T shirt like that that.

 

[pinball1970]

I used a T-shirt that said "a pessimist is what an optimist calls a realist" I thought it was quite clever

"used to have" that is, I forgot to mention general senility.

 

[StatGuy2000]

I know exactly what you mean, we old more miserable as get older, we smile less get more illnesses/depression and our expectations of our fellow men decline because we see history repeat itself again and again.Basically we are beaten into the ground. I used a T-shirt that said "a pessimist is what an optimist calls a realist" I thought it was quite cleverNow I am just old to wear a T shirt like that that.

Curiously enough, some of the most optimistic people I've met are senior citizens (i.e. over the age of 65). Some of the most pessimistic people I've met are those in their 20s.

 

[Craftek_Ana]

I try to be optimistic about stuff but it gets harder as you get older

The poll is a bit too either or

+1
How about adding Realist as an option to the poll?
Where you weight your odds realisticly.

 

[nuuskur]

I'm mostly optimistic, although, not overly optimistic. For instance, I don't believe in free meals, figuratively speaking, but they are welcome.

As for cynicism - I.. it depends. Depends on the sort of people one is surrounded by.I am fully aware of the selfish pricks that are out there, but in conjunction with my (un)healthy dose of optimism, I TRY (underline, circle, bold, font 28) to see the better in people. I want to believe most of us are benign creatures, but..it's hard sometimes. I also have to remind myself that teenagers aren't people, but teenagers. They'll come around..eventually.

 

[Fervent Freyja]

A balance of both.

 

[Aufbauwerk 2045]

I vote for Realist.

 

[Ucha]

I consider myself a realist. If I see something to be optimistic about, I'm optimistic. If I don't I can be the opposite. Although, I do generally lean more towards optimism.