TrickyDicky said:
But the point here, or at leas what I meant in the post about dropping realism, is that either we agree on calling nonlocal any theory able to get Quantum predictions, regardless of any other assumption like realism, or in the nonrealistic case(like QM's) it makes no sense to still calling it local, unless we are meaning the Einstein sense i.e. causal, but then it is better not to use the term local.
I think a theory can be nonlocal in the Bell sense and keep causality, it just won't be able to do it with particle-like objects in its ontology in the case the theory is realist, if it is not, i.e. intrumentalis like QM it can make up anything without the need to take it seriously as interpretation(as indeed happens).
But then we are just talking about words, aren't we? Some people identify "non-local" with "being able to violate Bell inequalities". Well if that's what you mean by local and non-local, then we can call QM non-local.
I am sure we could discuss this for days and days. Let me just say that apparently a lot of serious people do find it meaningful to separate local-realism into "local" and "realism" and discuss rejecting one but not the other. People do see two distinct options there. The Bohmians go for non-local + realism. IMHO Copenhagen a la Belavkin deserves to be called local + non-realism. But these are just labels! A rose by any other name would smell as sweet ... Let's try to be aware of what anybody actually means by a particular label in a particular context.
Remember that "realism" aka "counterfactual definiteness" is actually a rather idealistic position: it asserts the physical existence in reality (whatever that means) of things that did never happened, things that are never seen, things which a priori one would say we don't need to "add in" to our model of reality. It's just that in classical physics (characterized as LHV), there is no problem with adding in those things, and no problem with locality after they have been added in.
Remember that EPR actually used quantum predictions (perfect anti-correlation in the singlet state) in order to argue for realism. Einstein was smart. He realized that "realism" is an unnecessary add-on, an idealistic point of view. It needed to be motivated from the physics which we do believe actually does describe the real world, namely QM.
Bell was extraordinarily smart to be able to turn this argument on its head. He noticed that Einstein was actually also using locality +QM to suggest, to motivate (not to prove) realism. And he showed that the three together locality + realism + QM leads to a contradiction (if we exclude conspiracy) ...
Bell's fifth position is a kind of weakening of the option "QM is wrong". It says "QM is right but stops us from realizing or seeing certain things in Nature or in he Lab, which do appear to be allowed in the formalism".
Classical thermodynamics has things like this. You're not ever going to see all the molecules in the air all in the same half of your Lab and it will be rather hard to engineer that situation, too. You can set up an airtight wall across the lab but not take it down in a split second.