In my experience over the years with the PF Cosmo forum the people who can think visually in new ways and want to learn tend to stay around and people who want to debate matters of verbal opinion tend to go away.
JonathanCollins said:
... is still expanding it cannot be infinite. ...
Jonathan I'd like to invite you to take a break from arguing matters of opinion at this point and try imagining a finite volume that has no boundaries.
Nothing outside or inside it, just it.
Analogous to a balloon surface with all existence concentrated on the 2d surface---nothing inside or outside of it. No boundary because closed around on itself. Like a circular ring has no boundary.
Can you picture the analogous 3d volume?
Also Jonathan can you imagine the experience of being a 2d creature living in the zero thickness 2d surface of the balloon?
Say it is expanding. It is not expanding INTO anything, because there is no external space. All existence is concentrated in that finite area.
How do you experience the expansion? You and your family and your 2d house stay the same size but larger scale distances (like between disconnected galaxies) grow.
Can you imagine living in an infinite volume space that is expanding? It is not expanding INTO anything because there is no outside of it either. What would its expansion look like for someone dwelling in it?
Just because I'm encouraging you to exercise your visual imagination doesn't mean I'm trying to *convince* you of anything. the issue is suppleness of visual imagination, not opinion.
In fact I personally prefer to imagine the cosmos as having no boundaries and a FINITE spatial volume. But some people prefer to think of it as spatially infinite, and we never argue about this because so far the question has not been resolved. It may be resolved in the future, with more and more precise observations (or it might never be resolved...)