cmb said:
I have seen explanations of black holes that describe it (a given mass) as collapsing to a singularity with 'infinite' gravitational characteristics.
This is a very vague description (and you should give specific references instead of just saying "I have seen") and is not a good basis for reasoning about black holes.
cmb said:
I understood that to mean with no volume. Otherwise, what does 'collapsing to a singularity' mean?
The
collapsing matter does end up at zero volume (at least, in the idealized classical model we are discussing). But that does not mean the
black hole has zero volume. The black hole is not the collapsing matter. It is a configuration of spacetime geometry that is left behind by the collapsing matter.
cmb said:
If one calculates the mass of a black hole from the gravitational fields around it
That is the only way to determine the hole's mass.
cmb said:
one then calculates the geometric volume within the event horizon
One can't; there is no such thing. As has already been said earlier in this thread, the "volume" of a black hole is not well-defined.
cmb said:
the event horizon (which is a 3D volume).
No, it isn't. The event horizon is a 2-sphere. More precisely, it's an infinite series of 2-spheres connected along a family of outgoing null geodesics. But we can just look at anyone of the 2-spheres since they all have the same area.
The key thing to understand about the event horizon as a 2-sphere is that
it does not enclose an ordinary 3D volume. The geometry of spacetime inside the event horizon is not the ordinary 3D geometry you are used to. It is something very different. So you cannot reason about it the way you would reason about an ordinary 3D volume enclosed by a 2-sphere surface. You just can't.
cmb said:
it seems questions can be wrong
It's not quite that the questions you are asking are wrong, it's that you don't yet appear to have grasped that the issue is not the particular questions you're asking, but the whole underlying conceptual scheme you are using to ask them. That whole underlying conceptual scheme is what you need to discard when you are talking about black holes.