DrChinese said:
He uses the term "collapse", which I think is appropriate. Further, it is clear from his description that he views this as physical - not merely an update of knowledge. There is no question that this is instantaneous action at a distance.
Ah, I think I understand now what's the main source of confusion. In BM there is no collapse, and yet one can talk about collapse in BM. How can that be?
The key, made particularly clear by Bell, is that, in BM, one needs to distinguish
exact statements from
FAPP (for all practical purposes) statements. In BM there is no real exact collapse, but there is an effective FAPP collapse. Namely, even though there is no real collapse, under certain conditions the motion of particles can approximately be described by a collapsed wave function. In other words, for practical purposes it looks as if the wave function collapsed, even though it really didn't. This happens whenever a sufficient amount of decoherence happened due to interaction with the environment, which is just another way to say that the environment performed a measurement. That is how measurement in BM explains an effective collapse, without involving a real collapse.
And now we can answer the central question of this thread. Suppose that initially two particles, A and B, are entangled. Now if A strongly interacts with the environment ##E_A##, that effectively destroys entanglement of B with and A. Instead, now B is entangled with the composite system ##A+E_A##. But this kind of entanglement cannot be measured because ##E_A## is a complex system with a huge number of degrees of freedom, so effectively (FAPP) it looks like a classical system, even though it is really a quantum system. Thus it looks as if now B is no longer entangled with anything. All that is valid for both the standard and the Bohmian interpretation. What is specific for the Bohmian interpretation is that now, when the entanglement is effectively destroyed, we can say that the pilot wave associated with ##A+E_A## effectively
ceases to act on the Bohmian particle associated with B. But it's only an effective approximative description, akin to to the effective collapse, while on the exact level the action did not realy cease.
I want to believe that this is all consistent with the things that
@DrChinese had in mind, but I hope I made all this more explicit.