You are not making the case that sex is a cause of good health and longevity. What these sources indicate is that good health is associated with more sexual activity, which is not at all surprising. First, poor health, for a variety of reasons, may decrease sexual drive. Secondly, healthy people are more attractive and probably have more opportunities for sex. You only provided the abstract for the KE Money article which suggests a causal relation. This article over thirty years old and published in a journal called "Medical Hypotheses". I know of no reputable source that suggests that sexual abstinence causes poor health. However, sexual promiscuity is highly associated with sexually transmitted disease with its morbidity and mortality in both sexes. Sexual fidelity in committed relationships among adults is generally associated with better health, other things being equal.