I think that the truth is probably somewhere between your position and
@WWGD's position.
Science students tend to dramatically overly apply causation and causality. It is something that has to be corrected frequently.
For example, Newton's 3rd law can be written ##\vec F_{ij}=-\vec F_{ji}##. It is common for students to believe that the force on the left is an "action" which causes the "reaction" force on the right. They can then become confused on how to apply Newton's 3rd when the cause and effect is not clear. Since causes precede effects and since the forces in Newton's 3rd law are simultaneous they generally should not be thought of in terms of cause and effect. Even worse is if they do find a pair of causally related forces (one preceding the other) and try to apply Newton's 3rd law across time.
Another example is Maxwell's equations. $$ \nabla \cdot \vec E = \rho $$$$\nabla \cdot \vec B = 0$$$$\nabla \times \vec E = -\partial_t \vec B$$$$\nabla \times \vec B = \vec J + \partial_t \vec E$$ Not just students, but also more experienced scientists will describe the left hand side as effects and the right hand side as causes. They will even describe light as "changing E fields causing changing B fields causing changing E fields and repeating" while referring to these equations. This has the same problem as above: causes precede effects but the things in Maxwell's equations happen at the same time.
There is a causal formulation of electromagnetism called Jefimenko's equations (or rather the retarded potentials): $$\phi(\vec r,t)=\int\frac{\rho(\vec r',t_r)}{|\vec r-\vec r'|} d^3\vec r'$$$$ \vec A(\vec r,t)=\int \frac{\vec J(\vec r',t_r)}{|\vec r-\vec r'|} d^3\vec r'$$$$t_r=t-\frac{\vec r-\vec r'}{c}$$In this formula causes on the right side of the equations precede effects on the left side. This does express a true causaul relationship, but such equations are actually rather uncommon so I wouldn't say that science is
primarily concerned with causation. It is certainly a topic of some concern, but not so ubiquitously as you imply. Even when causal relations do exist, they are often not the most convenient or useful approach to a phenomenon.