jlcd said:
We humans use born rule so we can get eigenstates
We humans don't directly observe any quantum system that is simple enough that we can even write down a specific operator and its eigenstates. By the time we observe anything, a huge number of degrees of freedom are involved and a lot of decoherence has occurred. So this statement is not correct as a statement about what we humans actually do.
In some very special cases, we can ignore the above and treat our observation
as if we were directly observing eigenstates of some simple operator of some simple quantum system. But that's a convenient simplification that has practical uses. It is not in any way a claim about how things "really are".
jlcd said:
let's take an object like iron bar.
What I said above applies to any macroscopic object.
jlcd said:
When a molecule inside it is "measuring" other molecules inside it.
This is not a useful way of viewing what is going on. The iron bar has something like ##10^{25}## atoms in it. All of them are continually interacting; the bar as a whole is continually decohering. This is not a "measurement" in any useful sense. It's just part of being a macroscopic object.
jlcd said:
Does the latter have to be in eigenstates before the molecule can interact with it?
Individual atoms can interact with each other regardless of what states they are in.
Also, you keep saying "eigenstates" as though they were properties of the atom. They're not. They're properties of an
operator, i.e., some measurement you can make on a quantum object. For example, if you measure an electron's spin in the ##z## direction, there are two states of the electron that are eigenstates of that measurement. But if you measure the spin in the ##x## direction, there are two
different states of the electron that are eigenstates of that measurement.
But even the above, as I said before, assumes that you have a quantum system and a measurement that are simple enough that you can write them down. We can't do that for macroscopic objects.
(Also, saying that we "measure" the electron's spin, if all that's involved is the electron's spin degree of freedom, is really a misnomer. We pass the electron through a magnetic field that entangles its spin with its linear momentum. This is a unitary interaction and does not require anything to be observed at all. When we say we "measure" the spin, what we mean is that we have a detector, such as a piece of photographic film--a macroscopic object--placed so that we will see a spot at one of two points on the detector: which point depends on which direction the electron was moving when it came out of the magnetic field, i.e., what its linear momentum was, which the magnetic field entangled with the spin. The "result" of the measurement is actually the position of the spot--that's what we observe. We
infer from that observation that the electron's spin was up or down, because we follow the chain of reasoning backwards from the spot position to the electron's momentum coming out of the magnetic field to the electron's spin that got entangled with the momentum.)