A user expresses a growing crush on an older woman from their philosophy class, revealing that she is four years senior. The attraction intensified upon learning her age, as she appears youthful and cute. Other participants in the discussion encourage the user to engage with her more, suggesting that age differences are often not significant in relationships. Concerns arise about the possibility of her being engaged, based on a vague conversation hint, but the group reassures that without clear evidence, such worries may be unfounded. The user shares feelings of inadequacy, struggling with confidence when interacting with her, particularly in maintaining eye contact. The conversation shifts to the complexities of attraction, the importance of communication, and the common challenges faced when approaching someone one is interested in. Overall, the thread highlights the dynamics of crushes, age differences in dating, and the emotional hurdles that can accompany romantic feelings.