JohnnyGui said:
Can one then say that a curved spacetime metric consists of more units than a non- or less-curved one?
No, because there is no way of making the comparison. You can't use coordinates to do it, because the fact that two events in different spacetimes happen to have the same 4-tuple of coordinate numbers assigned to them has no physical meaning. And there is no other way to do it.
JohnnyGui said:
what is it that makes an object that is moving in a curved spacetime, differ in velocity from when it's moving in a flat spacetime
There's no way of making this comparison either, so the question you're asking doesn't make sense.
JohnnyGui said:
to the extent that one can't talk about relative velocity in a curved spacetime?
The reason one can't talk about relative velocity in curved spacetime is that the spacetime is curved.

That is the difference between curved and flat spacetime that makes the concept of "relative velocity" inapplicable except locally in curved spacetime. There is no other possible comparison.
As for why curvature of the spacetime is the key property here, that's probably getting too involved for a PF thread, but I'll try. Consider how we actually compare velocities between distant objects in flat spacetime: we use an inertial frame that covers the entire spacetime. But why does the inertial frame cover the entire spacetime? Because we can take a whole fleet of observers, start them out all at rest relative to each other and moving inertially, and they will
stay at rest relative to each other forever. So if observer A, over here, wants to know how fast some object is moving that is just passing observer B, he can just ask observer B how fast the object is moving relative to him, and assume that the object's velocity relative to observer A himself will be the same.
But in curved spacetime, if we take two observers, start them out at rest relative to each other, and have them move inertially, they will
not stay at rest relative to each other. That is because spacetime curvature is the same thing as tidal gravity, and tidal gravity causes inertially moving objects that start out at rest relative to each other to not stay at rest relative to each other. So there is no longer any invariant way, in a curved spacetime, to relate the speed that something is moving relative to observer B, to a speed relative to observer A, because observers A and B themselves can no longer form a global inertial frame the way they could in flat spacetime.