Dembadon
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There are a couple different cases that affect my feelings about distractions at the dinner table:
Case 1: The child is so young that it can't follow an adult conversation. If this is the case, finding something to keep them occupied while waiting for the food to come is fine. I used to color or read a book; now it's probably more common to see kids with smartphones.
Case 2: The person is old enough to participate but is using the phone/device to avoid interaction with guests/hosts. This is what I find to be rude. It's just the way I was raised. The belief was pretty much, "I know you're feeling anti-social, but suck-it-up for an hour and visit with our guests."
Case 1: The child is so young that it can't follow an adult conversation. If this is the case, finding something to keep them occupied while waiting for the food to come is fine. I used to color or read a book; now it's probably more common to see kids with smartphones.
Case 2: The person is old enough to participate but is using the phone/device to avoid interaction with guests/hosts. This is what I find to be rude. It's just the way I was raised. The belief was pretty much, "I know you're feeling anti-social, but suck-it-up for an hour and visit with our guests."