vanhees71 said:
The mass is given by the entire internal energy of the composite system, not only the sum of the kinetic energies of their constituents.
Mister T said:
I don't know how to define inertial mass in special relativity, but resistance to acceleration gives a weird result. The resistance to acceleration gives different results depending on the direction of the force.
It doesn't. As soon as you describe everything in a manifestly covariant way, it gets as simple (or complicated ;-)) as in Newtonian physics. Particularly mass is the same in both theories, i.e., the invariant mass,
$$m \frac{\mathrm{d}^2 x^{\mu}}{\mathrm{d} \tau^2}=K^{\mu}(x,\mathrm{d}_{\tau} x,\tau).$$
By construction, the "Minkowski force" has to fulfill
$$\frac{\mathrm{d} x^{\mu}}{\mathrm{d} \tau} K_{\mu}=0,$$
because by definition of the proper time, ##\tau##, you have
$$(\mathrm{d}_{\tau} x^{\mu})(\mathrm{d}_{\tau} x_{\mu})=c^2.$$
Mister T said:
SI provides a definition but I no longer understand it since they did away with the standard kilogram. I suppose I could figure out with a moderate amount of effort.
The SI defines the units. Since 2019 everything is defined by defining the fundamental constants of Nature, with the only exception of ##G##, the Gravitational constant, because it's not accurate enough to determine. That's why the second, as one of the base units (in some sense it's indeed The base unit of the SI) is still defined via the Cesium standard and not implictly by the definitions of the natural constants.
Having the second, you define the metre as the unit of length by giving the speed of light in vacuum a definite value.
For the kg you need in addition ##h=2 \pi \hbar##.
The Coulomb is simply defined by setting the value of the elementary charge (the charge of a proton or the negative of the charge of an electron).
Then the mol is defined by defining the Avogadro constant.
And finally the Kelvin is defined by setting the value of the Boltzmann constant. That's it.