This isn't what I meant by "seeing a time-varying metric". I explicitly said that I meant "seeing a changing strength of tidal gravity with respect to proper time", which is *not* coordinate-dependent. I didn't say anything about coordinates. I was talking strictly about actual physical observables. An inertial observer in a curved stationary spacetime sees the strength of tidal gravity in his vicinity change with respect to his proper time. An observer following an orbit of the timelike Killing vector field (who must be accelerated) sees the strength of tidal gravity in his vicinity remain constant with respect to his proper time. This is an observable physical difference.
Well, of course. I specifically said a static observer (accelerated, staying at constant radius) could perform it.
The experiment I described has to be done locally. Please describe how a static observer at radius r1 can do an experiment that directly measures the tidal gravity in the vicinity of an inertial observer at radius r2 which is different from r1. Of course the static observer at r1 can receive information *from* the inertial observer at r2, via radio messages, say, communicating the results of the inertial observer's experiments, but that doesn't seem to be what you are talking about.
Yes, of course. You can do the experiment I described to measure the strength of tidal gravity in your vicnity in any spacetime whatsoever. But in a spacetime without a timelike Killing vector field, the results of the experiment will change with respect to your proper time, no matter *what* worldline you follow.
Only with a definition of "time-varying metric" different from the one I gave. Obviously if you *define* "time-varying" as "changing with respect to coordinate time", then a time-varying metric is coordinate-dependent. But I don't care about definitions; if you don't like my usage of the term "time-varying metric", then just read "changing strength of gravity with respect to proper time" in all my posts instead, since that's what I meant. I am trying to talk about the actual physical observables, not coordinates.