1. Yes, this was exactly my point. I think you misunderstood me before. Indeed the form of realism you generally suggest is an absolutely necessary pin in the logic of the theorem
2. Later people like O. Costa de Beauregard, Huw Price, and others since have advanced the idea of using backwards causation to
save locality and show how Bell and GHZ inequalities could be violated. Price discusses this at length in his book
"Time's Arrow and Archimedes Point"
http://www.usyd.edu.au/time/price/TAAP.html
and his papers:
Backward causation, hidden variables, and the meaning of completeness. PRAMANA - Journal of Physics (Indian Academy of Sciences), 56(2001) 199—209.
http://www.usyd.edu.au/time/price/preprints/QT7.pdf
Time symmetry in microphysics. Philosophy of Science 64(1997) S235-244.
http://www.usyd.edu.au/time/price/preprints/PSA96.html
Toy models for retrocausality. Forthcoming in Studies in History and Philosophy of Modern Physics, 39(2008).
http://arxiv.org/abs/0802.3230
You may also be interested to know that there exists a deBB model developed by Sutherland that implements backwards causation, is completely local, and reproduces the empirical predictions of standard QM:
Causally Symmetric Bohm Model
Authors: Rod Sutherland
http://arxiv.org/abs/quant-ph/0601095
http://www.usyd.edu.au/time/conferences/qm2005.htm#sutherland
http://www.usyd.edu.au/time/people/sutherland.htm
and his older work:
Sutherland R.I., 'A Corollary to Bell's Theorem', Il Nuovo Cimento B 88, 114-18 (1985).
Sutherland R.I., 'Bell's Theorem and Backwards-in-Time Causality', International Journal of Theoretical Physics 22, 377-84 (1983).
And just to emphasize, all these backwards causation models involve some form of realism.
3. Whether your viewpoint is "mainstream" (and you still have to define what "mainstream" means to make it meaningful) or not is completely irrelevant. All that is relevant is the logical validity and factual accuracy of your understanding of these issues. But, I could tell you that among QM foundations specialists, such as people who participate in the annual APS conference on foundations of physics (which I have done so for the past 3 consecutive years):
New Directions in the Foundations of Physics
American Center for Physics, College Park, April 25 - 27, 2008
http://carnap.umd.edu/philphysics/conference.html
your opinion is quite the minority. Furthermore, I didn't imply that locality isn't embedded in Bell's theorem or that realism isn't embedded in Bell's theorem. I just said that the crucial conclusion of Bell's theorem (and Bell's own explicitly stated conclusion) is that QM is not a
locally causal theory, not that it is not a locally real theory, whatever that would mean.
4. Let me also emphasize that unlike what you seem to be doing in characterizing Bell's theorem as a refutation of realism, Zeilinger acknolwedges that nonlocal hidden variable theories like deBB are compatible with experiments, even if he himself is an 'anti-realist'. By the way, anti-realists such as yourself or Zeilinger still have the challenge to come up with a solution to the measurement problem and derive the quantum-classical limit. Please don't try to invoke decoherence, since the major developers and proponents of decoherence theory like Zurek, Zeh, Joos, etc., are actually realists themselves - and even they admit that decoherence theory has not and probably will never on its own solves the measurement problem or account for the quantum-classical limit. On the other hand, it is well acknolwedged that nonlocal realist theories like deBB plus decoherence do already solve the problem of measurement and already accurately (even if not yet perfectly) describe the quantum-classical limit. So by my assessment, it is the anti-realist crowd that is in the minority and has much to prove.