I've been grappling with the exterior derivative for about a week now working mostly from
David Bachman's book. I unfortunately do not have a good geometrical interpretation, but I think I might be closer to some kind of understanding.
d\omega seems to be a very strange quantity. If \omega is a zero-form, we have d\omega as the gradient. If one-form, we have a curl. If a three-form, we have a divergence. The only thing these three quantities seem to have in common is that they obey the generalised Stokes Equation.
Bachman's book, along with just about every other source, doesn't really seem to go into detail about what the exterior derivative of a form
actually is, in and of itself, other than to say, or imply, that the exterior derivative is just something that will make Stokes Equation work. To this end, quite complicated definitions of how to find the exterior derivative are needed. I was never a big fan of long definitions, and the definitions of the exterior derivative are a bit cumbersome. Plus the fact that they change for every type of form, getting longer and longer as you go, doesn't help in conceptual understanding of what makes all these exterior derivatives "the same" in some way.
Anyway, after fighting with this for a while, I think I've managed to come to terms with "why" all these things called exterior derivatives are the same underlying relation or operation. But I'm not certain if it is actually correct. Here's my current thinking.
Taking the case of three dimensional vectors, if you do something, a little risque, and define the following "one-form"
\nabla = \frac{\partial}{\partial x} dx +\frac{\partial}{\partial y} dy +\frac{\partial}{\partial z} dz
Then, at least for zero, one and two forms, because they're the only ones I've checked
d\omega \equiv \nabla\wedge\omega
Or in a more descriptive form.
d\omega(V_1,\ldots,V_{n+1}) \equiv \nabla\wedge\omega(V_1,\ldots,V_{n+1})
where
\omega(V_1,\ldots,V_n)
is an n-form.
Now I haven't actually checked this for the general case, i.e. of all n-dimensional vectors and k-forms, but I've got a feeling it should be OK, and hopefully it can be extended. The reason I'm posting is to ask if this interpretation is correct? If so, can anyone give it the thumbs up? And if I'm on the wrong track, please let me know!