I just had an idea, and I don't know what else to do with my ideas other than google them so I did. I Googled: Is what is after the observable universe a singularity because this is now what I have come to understand singularities as "the place where the math model breaks down and we don't know WHAT is going on" . The first link it brought me to was
https://profmattstrassler.com/2014/03/21/did-the-universe-begin-with-a-singularity/. Did the universe begin with a singularity, which clearly does not remotely answer my question. As I began to type this I realize it has to be, in the definition of the math model breaks down and we don't have a clue of what's going on.
So I stumbled upon this and perhaps this is what I was looking for with my first question, although I am not entirely sure: "So there were a number of attempts to get round the conclusion, that there was a singularity of infinite density in the past. "
"The conclusion of this lecture is that the universe has not existed forever. Rather, the universe, and time itself, had a beginning in the Big Bang, about 15 billion years ago. The beginning of real time, would have been a singularity, at which the laws of physics would have broken down."
http://www.hawking.org.uk/the-beginning-of-time.html
And I can see how we would have no idea what is going on, but I would still like to know more. So the research continues.
Thanks
P