metalminded said:
Hi. I've asked the question many times (as I'm sure many others have) why does the particle behave differently once it has been observed? Does that not mean it knows it has been observed? How does it know?
The only answer I get is: "observing destroys the wave function" , but that doesn't really answer anything, it just rephrases the question. I'm probably asking the unanswerable here, but seriously, how does a lifeless object know it is being watched?
This is a problem they way you describe only if you think that the wavefunction is an intrinsic property of the system you observe.
This sure is interpretation dependent, but if you IMHO more rightly think of the wavefunction as the observer information of the system, then it's pretty obvious what the collapse is. It's simply an information update of part of the the observers state that encodes the information of the subsystem we study.
In that view, though the only another "mystery" is that then the wavefunction of say and atom, seems to be "observer dependent" and thus somewhat subjective.
But this is not a problem, because it just reflects that the action of each observer towards this atom can in general be different, but as these observers keep interacting, an agreement will quickly be establised, making the views of all observers "consistent" as there exists transformations between them at equilibrium.
We already konw from SR and semiclassical GR+QM that the wavefcuntion IS observer dependent. It doesn't make sense to think of the wavefuction as a realistic objective property of the system we study, it depends on both the observer and the system in study.
So the simple dechoerence view, that you consider the observer + subsystem we study as the new system' is IMO somewhat silly and is missing the entire point of observations. In the extreme case the "observer" is like a birds view observer, that has to observer the entire universe, and that simply doesn't make any reasonbble sense to me. It's a mathematical picture that lacks value and match of anything inferrable.
/Fredrik