Benish said:
Would someone please provide a link to a spacetime diagram corresponding to the most cogent of the various explanations provided in this long discussion?
ascu may be convinced, but surely the question deserves a clear graphic answer to clinch it.
It's hard to say what explanation will be "cognent" for you. I'll pick one that's easy to draw.
You can not draw a space-time diagram that's to scale on a flat sheet of paper. So we need to introduce the concept of a scale factor. We'll do that with a dashed line, labelled "scale factor"
The dashed line is of constant (proper) length.
So, on the space time diagram, the vertical lines represent the position of the test masses, which in the diagram have constant x coordinates, so they are just vertical lines. However, while the coordinates are constant, the coordinates do not represent distance in a uniform manner because of the time-varying scale factor. So the coordinates have no direct physical significance, they are convenient labels to describe the geometry.
The dashed lines on the diagram represent a constant proper distance. So they represent the scale factor, as one might see on a map. As you can see from the diagram, this scale factor changes with time. So while the free-floating test masses have constant x-coordinates, these coordinates on the diagram are not and cannot be "to scale". The distances on the diagram are represented by the dashed lines representing the scale factor, you can think of them as representing rulers of fixed proper length. So to recap, the diagram isn't to scale because it can't be, to understand the diagram one needs to understand the graphical representation of the time-varying scale factor.