How Old are You? - Revisiting an Old PFs Thread

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The discussion revolves around participants sharing their ages and reflecting on the relationship between age, wisdom, and respect. Many younger members express frustration with adults who expect respect solely based on age, arguing that wisdom is not guaranteed with years. They emphasize that intelligence and knowledge can exist independently of age, with some younger individuals feeling more mature and insightful than older counterparts. The conversation highlights the distinction between knowledge and wisdom, suggesting that true wisdom comes from life experiences rather than just age. Older participants acknowledge that while age can provide opportunities for learning, it does not inherently confer wisdom. The thread also touches on the challenges of adolescence, including mood swings and societal expectations, while younger members express a desire to be heard and respected for their perspectives. Overall, the dialogue reflects a generational clash regarding respect, wisdom, and the value of experience.
  • #151
Originally posted by LW Sleeth
The "lofty" position I assume is that of a person who has lived, worked, educated himself and survived a lot longer than a 14 year old who thinks he should be considered equal in wisdom when he can't even take care of himself without mommy and daddy's help.
...You don't know much of anything yet, you just think you know . . . boring. [zz)]
...If you think a computer can be wise, you really are clueless.
...Continuing to insist just proves how little you know about things.

what little wisdom i have tells me that such pointlessly aggressive and mean statements are immature and not really called for. i think we should all take a deep breath and try to approach this subject with a little less anger and resentment.
 
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  • #152
Originally posted by maximus
what little wisdom i have tells me that such pointlessly aggressive and mean statements are immature and not really called for. i think we should all take a deep breath and try to approach this subject with a little less anger and resentment.

Sorry Maximus . . . I just came back to delete my post but it was too late, you'd quoted me. None of what I said was directed at you however, it was my frustration with Mentat.

Still, I should just drop out of this conversation rather than get mad.
 
  • #153
Originally posted by LW Sleeth
The "lofty" position I assume is that of a person who has lived, worked, educated himself and survived a lot longer than a 14 year old who thinks he should be considered equal in wisdom when he can't even take care of himself without mommy and daddy's help.

You obviously don't know anything about me, but that's not your fault. I would simply ask that you not make any more assumptions.

You don't know much of anything yet, you just think you know . . . boring. [zz)]

If you think a computer can be wise, you really are clueless.

Well, now that we've come to blind insults, without any attempt at reasoning, I suppose the conversation will get nowhere, as you apparently haven't the slightest idea why you believe the way you do, you just do, and you think everyone else should believe the same way too.

Convince you? Do you know how many words I've written, and how many hours I spent thinking about this trying to help you understand it?

That's what the problem is.[/color] You've been trying to make me understand, when you should have been proving your side of the debate. There's a huge difference. I could have spent all of this time trying to "help you understand" my side of the debate, but that doesn't get anyone anywhere, because it starts from the assumption that if someone disagrees with you, there must be some misunderstanding. Don't you see how closed-minded that is? Haven't you seen how ugly it gets with Alexander in the Philosophy Forum? It got ugly because he was convinced that, if someone disagreed with him, they must not understand, and needed to be "educated".

Mentat, you aren't going to accept anything on this subject because you are having too much fun playing here with the adults pretending to be wise. How wise is it to prefer the image of wisdom over the real thing?

And how wise is it to assume that the fact that your matter has decayed for a longer time than mine, and your health is deteriorating faster than mine, and you've had more time to make more mistakes than I have (and more mistakes than I will probably ever make) makes you wiser?

Without experience you ain't gettin' wisdom!

Without listening to my side of the argument, you ain't gettin' past your original assumption.

And you will never convince anybody that you have it who has lived awhile either. Continuing to insist just proves how little you know about things.

And what are you doing? Are you not insisting that you have wisdom - and not just that, but that you have wisdom that far surpasses mine?

There is one way you could be very wise right now, and that is to be humble. But you can't even master that first step

Neither can you! In this kind of debate, I become a mirror of your attitude. If you'll look back, you'll notice that I didn't even begin to close my mind to your repetitious parroting of your opinion, unil long after you had closed your mind to my reasoning (which is probably how you started out here anyway).

so I don't know why you think you are going to make it any further.

More importantly, I don't think you even recognize your need to "go further", and will thus never attain the wisdom that you think is owed you by the Second Law of Thermodynamics.
 
  • #154
Originally posted by LW Sleeth
Sorry Maximus . . . I just came back to delete my post but it was too late, you'd quoted me. None of what I said was directed at you however, it was my frustration with Mentat.

Still, I should just drop out of this conversation rather than get mad.

nor was my statement necesarily directed at you. we all are getting a little frusterated and should just calm down. (and i really do appresiate the post)
 
  • #155
I'm almost 17 ( I will be after less than 3 mounths )
 
  • #156
21

i don't want to be any older, either.

If anyone knows a good anti ageing cream or lotion (that actually stops you ageing) please post it here!
 
  • #157
Originally posted by jonnylane
21

i don't want to be any older, either.

If anyone knows a good anti ageing cream or lotion (that actually stops you ageing) please post it here!


Sunscreen; SPF15.
 
  • #158
That stops you aging!??! Wow, my search is over it would seem. And here I thought that it just protected your skin from the harmful effects of UV radiation!
 
  • #159
Yes, I think that it reduces effects upon the skin which have the effect of making people look older than what they are. It does not stop aging, or even reduce it - it just makes it look like the rate of aging is slowed.
 
  • #160
Originally posted by Another God
That stops you aging!??! Wow, my search is over it would seem. And here I thought that it just protected your skin from the harmful effects of UV radiation!

Actually, yes; at least in part. See any dermatological site for information about the damage done to your skin due to exposure to the sun. The effects UV are part of what we perceive as the skin aging.

Edit: whoops. You wanted a complete anti-aging formula. In that case, along with the external use of sunscreen, just take a tablespoon of Cod Liver Oil daily that will do it!
 
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  • #161
all of this is great, but i need to make it so that i never have another birthday.

and so that i can still steal road signs and feel ok anout it.
 
  • #162
Originally posted by mentat

That's what the problem is. You've been trying to make me understand, when you should have been proving your side of the debate.

Mentat, the only person who can prove anything to you, is you, but only when you acccept the evidence.

But, the only evidence, that will ever be available to you, is when/after YOU (have) pass(ed) the time.

The only person who will ever be able to prove this to you, is you!

You will end up proving to yourself, most likeley, that is of course, if you truly do find/are wise/dom.

All anyone else can ever do is attempt to impart their own understanding, there is no 'proving' anything, other then 'just subjective attestament' to it.

But I agree, that you do seem rather educated for the age you profess, as does maximus, and you can be intellectually frustrating to some people, some time, so can I, it's not always that difficult, it's not always a critisizm, cause as I have seen, you recognise it too, so that helps everyone.

I'm still 47 though. That does mean something.

(and some months more, now)
 
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  • #163
I am 10 and a half years old...

and completely 'full of wisdom'. I will be no wiser by the time I turn 11 because the passage of time does not bring wisdom.
 
  • #164
not really true

you can't gain wisdom without the passage of time. If time stood still would you ever become more wise?

I know this because I am older (and therefore more wise)

hee hee
 
  • #165
I think wisdom is gained with time, but I also think some people are inherently more wise than others, and so are able to gain more wisdom over that time...so perhaps this is a matter of defining what we are talking about. I guess I believe there is something which we are born as which isn't gained over time...and that is our ability to open our mind to critically analyse new concepts and accept or deny them appropriately. Some might call that wisdom...

Anyway, as for Mr. Robin Parsons post to Mentat: Mentat, my only advice on this topic for you is the same advice I have for everyone else. Stop trying to think of it as your duty to educate everyone else, and start thinking of it as your duty to educate yourself. What you do is you explain your belief/idea as best as you can to other people, and then let them try to convince you otherwise.

Don't worry if they don't believe you, just make sure you understand (and tell them if it is appropriate) why you don't believe them. (you don't have to make up your mind on the spot. Just give their position reasonable consideration. They do have their own reasons for believing it after all...)
 
  • #166
"Wisdom" is:
quote:

Merriam-Webster Dictionary
1 a : accumulated philosophic or scientific learning : KNOWLEDGE b : ability to discern inner qualities and relationships : INSIGHT c : good sense : JUDGMENT



"Wise" means:
quote:

Oxford Dictionary
1 having, showing, or dictated by wisdom. 2 prudent, sensible. 3 having knowledge. 4 suggestive of wisdom

Does a human being exist which does not fulfill some facet of these definitions?

Wisdom is one of those concepts which cannot be captured by a simple dictionary definition. Had I known, Mentat, that you needed a dictionary definition this conversation would not have taken place. I assumed that you had a deeper knowledge, as you have claimed. Clearly this is not the case. You will find, that as you age, you will adopt your own working definition of such words, which give such concepts a deeper personal meaning then can be found in a dictionary. I guess you are not there yet.

Wisdom is one of those things that is different for different stages of life, what is wise for a 5 year old may not be so for a 50 yr old. Youth is for learning, until you have raised children of your own you can not appreciate the rate at which infants are capable of learning, while adults can still learn and should never stop learning, children are blank slates waiting to soak up information. For you to assume that you have wisdom equal to that of an adult is not really displaying the wisdom a 15yr old needs, in fact just the opposite, such a judgment is foolish. Wisdom, at your stage of life it to grasp at every source of knowledge available. For you, this means listening to both good and bad information. Indeed, you need to be learning to filter information but be careful in filtering out the wheat with the chafe. How without some experience can you know the difference? Do you expect to get this from a textbook? Or perhaps you should take the word of someone? Do you see the dilemma? If you automatically choose not to listen to adults simply because you have convinced yourself of your personal wisdom you are making a big mistake. Far from being wise, this is the action of a fool.

It is not clear to me what it is you wish me to prove? Do you want me to prove that what I write is indeed what I belief? Do you think that these matters of philosophy need a mathematical style proof to validate them? Why is it that I am expected to prove what I say while you are not? What proof of your beliefs have you provided? Once again you make statements that are not indicative of wisdom.
 
  • #167
in a final effort to create a mutual understanding i will restate what i believe to be true in this subject:

i am willing to say that some wisdom can only be gained through time (no, not even through time-through certain experience), but that the basic (and also maybe most useful/profound) requires nothing to be gained execpt an observant mind that is willing to learn. i think it is perfectly possible for a person to become wise at a younge age, but that generally your wisdom increases with age. (not true for all cases) (yet to be proven) (patent pending)
 
  • #168
in a final effort to create a mutual understanding i will restate what i believe to be true in this subject:
Good luck !

i am willing to say that some wisdom can only be gained through time (no, not even through time-through certain experience),…
Experience requires time.

…but that the basic (and also maybe most useful/profound) requires nothing to be gained execpt an observant mind that is willing to learn…
Learning requires time.

…i think it is perfectly possible for a person to become wise at a younge age, but that generally your wisdom increases with age. (not true for all cases) (yet to be proven) (patent pending)
Well, I think I can find the most agreement in this last statement made, but I want to add a few more of my own comments to this thread too;
I do not believe that anyone is born wise. If someone here believes that newborns and infants are wise, I think we will just have to agree to disagree. And why is this so?
The way I see it, the odds of someone being wise are much increased if that person is old (obviously there are old idiots, just look at me , so I think it should be understood that nothing is written in stone here). Nevertheless, T I M E, and everything that happens over the course of same, obviously must have a place in the wisdom equation. Having a keen intellect is an advantage that can no doubt compensate for a lack of age, but I don’t think you can rightly throw out what holds true in general owing to a small number of exceptions. Maybe the exceptions to the rule will grow exceedingly wise by the TIME they are old, but it will nevertheless take time. Wisdom, knowledge, whateverthehellelseyouwanttorelateitto, all require time. You didn’t pop out of the fox-hole wise and as smart as you may be it will still require the passage of time for you to learn.

The rule stands.

Most young people don’t know a hot rock from a hole in the ground. It’s nothing personal whatsoever; they just haven’t lived long enough yet. In another decade or two, you will likely look back and see yourself in a completely different light then how you imagine yourself now. You may recognize mistakes made in your youth that were out of your control due to your immaturity. Age can bring with it a vantage point, like climbing to the top of a hill, from which you can look downward and backward and see things that you might have missed along the way. But, it takes time to climb.

I think Mentat may feel looked down upon and relegated to an automatic ‘inferior’ status by older people, and it is true that young people are often dismissed in such a way. However, it is by actually taking the time to speak with and getting to know individuals that we are able to determine whether they have anything of consequence to say or not. I might have suspicions that I wouldn’t find a young person worthy of giving sage advice, but if what came out of their mouth seemed worthwhile I would listen and consider it…I would also begin to lower my ‘bubble-gummer’ shield a bit the next time we spoke.

However wise a person might be today, they are likely to be even wiser tomorrow.
-BH
 
  • #169
Originally posted by BoulderHead
Experience requires time.

Learning requires time.


but how much time? could one, if one were paying attention well enough, be wise after, say, fifteen years of experience?



However wise a person might be today, they are likely to be even wiser tomorrow.
-BH

agreed.
 
  • #170
but how much time?
The more, the better.
could one, if one were paying attention well enough, be wise after, say, fifteen years of experience?
Not as broad a wisdom as at thirty.
 
  • #171
Originally posted by BoulderHead
Not as broad a wisdom as at thirty.

ahhh, but by what standards? could someone at 15 have equal to greater wisdom than another at thirty, regardless of whether this person himself would be wiser when he turns 30?
 
  • #172
Originally posted by maximus
ahhh, but by what standards? could someone at 15 have equal to greater wisdom than another at thirty, regardless of whether this person himself would be wiser when he turns 30?
He could be wiser in some areas and less wise in others. He may, for instance, have never been exposed to all that the 30 year old had been exposed to. In any event, it still took fifteen years to get were this individual was, so I would figure that a 15 year old would tend to be more wise than a 10 year old, wouldn't you?
 
  • #173
Originally posted by BoulderHead
He could be wiser in some areas and less wise in others. He may, for instance, have never been exposed to all that the 30 year old had been exposed to.

this is probably true, but still, you agree that it is possible to be wiser in maybe (using a previously introduced term) more profound areas?

In any event, it still took fifteen years to get were this individual was, so I would figure that a 15 year old would tend to be more wise than a 10 year old, wouldn't you?

generally this is true, as generally a thirty year old is wiser than a fifteen year old. but i'd say it is still possible for the 10 year old to be wiser. (supposing he was even more intelligent and willing to learn than the 15 year old, in which case he is also wiser than the 30 year old person)

but i would agree with your earlier statement that there is a limit to the age at which wisdom can possibly be acquired. (at least infancy )
 
  • #174
They say it's a wise child...

...that knows its own father.

(it's easier to know who your mom is, especially come breast feeding time)

...but still, you agree that it is possible to be wiser in maybe (using a previously introduced term) more profound areas?
I have no problem with agreeing to that, though we each have our own subjective ideas regarding what is considered 'profound'.

generally this is true, as generally a thirty year old is wiser than a fifteen year old. but i'd say it is still possible for the 10 year old to be wiser. (supposing he was even more intelligent and willing to learn than the 15 year old, in which case he is also wiser than the 30 year old person)
I wouldn't rule anything out, but I would say that it is quite unlikely nevertheless. Imagine if people lived to be 10,000 years old. Were I on a search for a wise man, I would seek out an old fogey in his nine-thousands rather than a young person in his teens.
 
  • #175


Originally posted by BoulderHead
I have no problem with agreeing to that, though we each have our own subjective ideas regarding what is considered 'profound'.

agreed.

I wouldn't rule anything out, but I would say that it is quite unlikely nevertheless. Imagine if people lived to be 10,000 years old. Were I on a search for a wise man, I would seek out an old fogey in his nine-thousands rather than a young person in his teens.

well there you have it, we agree with everything we've said. generally, age will increase with age, but that does not rule out the possiblility of wisdom at a younger age. (though i dount LW Sleeth will agree with this)
 
  • #176
Great, now let's see if we can disagree.

Well, let's just say there is wise, and then there is Wise. I think it is important to consider the context in which the word is used. There are people I have known who flocked to a certain young guru. I never investigated the matter, so I don't know what all the hoopla was about. What I do know is that a good number of adults thought this kid was full of wisdom, and maybe he was, though I tended to believe at the time that the adults were likely full of something other than wisdom.
 
  • #177
for the record, can you specify the difference between wise and Wise?
 
  • #178


Originally posted by BoulderHead
There are people I have known who flocked to a certain young guru. I never investigated the matter, so I don't know what all the hoopla was about. What I do know is that a good number of adults thought this kid was full of wisdom, and maybe he was, though I tended to believe at the time that the adults were likely full of something other than wisdom.


and who is this young guru?
 
  • #179
I don't remember his name, but it was back in the 1970's and I think he was from india. I'll see what I can dig up.
 
  • #180
well, before you do that, do you have an answer for my above question. (above my above question, i mean)
 
  • #181
I am 31 ------- feel very old !:frown:
 
  • #182
Maximus,
You speak of wisdom as if where a measurable quanity. I am sorry, that is a pretty silly notion. Dismiss any ideas that wisdom, unless you are happy with Mentat's dictionary definition, is something that you seek out. You seek knowledge, you gain wisdom. Or as I said before you EARN wisdom. That is what separates knowledge from wisdom.

You cannot compare wisdom as you do years of school or books read. You cannot rate degrees of wisdom, nor can you even claim wisdom for yourself. In my mind wisdom is something that can only be recognized in you by your associates in life. As soon as you proclaim yourself to be wise you reveal yourself to be a fool.
 
  • #183
Originally posted by maximus
for the record, can you specify the difference between wise and Wise?
Well, what I think is that you wish to lead me into proving a point, and if this is what you are doing then it would not be Wise for me to continue in this thread.

Now do you understand the difference?
 
  • #184
Originally posted by Integral
Maximus,
You speak of wisdom as if where a measurable quanity. I am sorry, that is a pretty silly notion. Dismiss any ideas that wisdom, unless you are happy with Mentat's dictionary definition, is something that you seek out. You seek knowledge, you gain wisdom. Or as I said before you EARN wisdom. That is what separates knowledge from wisdom.

You cannot compare wisdom as you do years of school or books read. You cannot rate degrees of wisdom, nor can you even claim wisdom for yourself. In my mind wisdom is something that can only be recognized in you by your associates in life. As soon as you proclaim yourself to be wise you reveal yourself to be a fool.

wisdom must, to some degree, be measurable. otherwise, how is it that someone can specify one person as being wise and another as not being wise? what is the distinction?
 
  • #185
Originally posted by BoulderHead
Well, what I think is that you wish to lead me into proving a point, and if this is what you are doing then it would not be Wise for me to continue in this thread.

i am not attemting to drive any point out of your statements, i only wonder what the difference between the two is, because i think it may be crusial to building an understanding in this the disscusion.


Now do you understand the difference?

no, I'm sorry. any subtle point you were trying to make has eluded me.
 
  • #186
Originally posted by Mentat
First off, this is not my main line of argument. LW Sleeth has yet to directly (and open-mindedly) counter that line of argument.

LWS has yet to respond to "what" line of argument? If this is not your line of argument then what line is it that he hasn't responded to?

Secondly, "it's obvious that my computer is not wise"? Surely you realize the closed-minded nature of this statement. Besides, did you happen to read the definitions of Wisdom? [/B]

Well pardon me. I wasn't approaching this discussion in this way. If you want to have a discussion along these lines then this topic needs to be moved to the philosophy forum. I interpreted this conversation (in the General forum) to be about the common understanding and usefullness of wisdom. In this common usage, the word wisdom would be meaningless if we were going to leave my PC open as a candidate. In this context, I don't think anyone would agree that my pc is wise. But if you want to claim that this is closed minded then you are either being hard headed or this topic belongs in the philosophy forum.
 
  • #187
i recomended (jokingly) that this should be moved to the philosophy forum a long time ago.
 
  • #188
Originally posted by Fliption
But if you want to claim that this is closed minded then you are either being hard headed or this topic belongs in the philosophy forum.


but wait! are you saying that one should be closed-minded in general discussion?
 
  • #189
Originally posted by maximus
but wait! are you saying that one should be closed-minded in general discussion?

No. I'm saying the objective and therefore the standard for deciding such things is different in the general forum.
 
  • #190
Originally posted by maximus
...no, I'm sorry. any subtle point you were trying to make has eluded me.
How do I make you understand, grasshopper?

I think I'm going to be unable to make progress beyond what I've already said. In the end, what I deem as wise and what you deem as wise may be two different things entirely.

You have acknowledged that time, and hence age, are good general guidelines to go with, and this was all that I really wanted to say. To keep a clipboard and run through a checklist, adding up an experience here and another over there, then summing up the results at the bottom and proclaiming oneself likely to be wise is just not what I'm interested in doing.

I do not claim to be wise, nor do I claim to be an intellectual. I am not interested in wearing a label, and if I were I would much sooner call myself an idiot than a wise man. I believe that my years have taught me to recognize wisdom in others, regardless of the persons age. I also know that most young people are anything but wise. They are inexperienced, reckless, and often driven more by their hormones than their minds. I was just like that once, this is all a part of being human. I will take sage advice where I find it, though I have to acknowledge that I've found it most often in older people.
 
  • #191
wisdom must, to some degree, be measurable. otherwise, how is it that someone can specify one person as being wise and another as not being wise? what is the distinction?
Why must it be measureable?

Wisdom is recognized in others, not yourself. This is regardless of age.
 
  • #192
Wisdom when witnessed in others is a reflection of yourself or how would you know the difference. Problem with these types of posts is instead of understanding the intrinsic nature of the post, people scoff it up and attribute it as wisdom. This type of understanding is false and does not stand up to the fire.

I had a post in old PF in the slowing of time with audacity dan. I would not post exactly what it was, but AD was close. Next thing I know I witnessed the same logic which was not posted priorly on the forum being used in other places. I know it was not original or completely understood by nature of other posts.

If tomarrow science said that God exists, or the moon was made of swiss cheese or bigfoot was a reality or that slick really did'nt breath in would this be considered wisdom if you read it and stored it in memory? No the only thing you know is that it was said. Belief. This is what keeps me from moving. This circle.

Yet last summer I had a vision which I know is going to come to pass and I do not understand how or why or what degree only that it will. I do not know if it will be as a result of talking on this forum or with poeple or a combination of things.

The purpose is to show that there is a reality which exists that is in accordance with physics and the natural world. This will happen, I just do not know how. Knowing in an unknowing.

I was going to ask the question is there anyone interested in proving such a thing and suddenly found myself in a fishtank. As if it would be that easy or reveal it's path to me in that manner. That is the difference between wisdom and not. Life for the most part is not in boxes, it is what it is and what that is is for us to discover as human beings.
 
  • #193
Originally posted by maximus
for the record, could you state the difference between wise and Wise . . .how is it that someone can specify one person as being wise and another as not being wise? what is the distinction?

So Maximus, can I assume you didn't like or agree with my efforts to define wisdom, and draw a distinction between the two types? To make sure you are still unsatisified with those explanations, let me reiterate.

First, in general I have been defining wisdom as (and I believe this is what others have been saying too) experienced-based learning.

This is to be distinquished from intellectual learning which takes place through study and thought alone. So, for example, you might study law in books and have a brilliant understanding of it, but never become wise in law until you start practicing law. How wise someone gets depends on how open and dedicated one is to learning while doing.

I went on to try to give you a sense of some of the ways the knowledge you now have in your head from reading and thinking is a different type of knowledge than that learned from actually doing. I explained that the intellect only creates a model, a mental construct that approximates the aspect of reality it’s trying to represent, whereas the experience of doing is a multi-dimensional experience, which I characterized with the terms richness, certainty, and wholeness. I suggested that the rich understanding, certainty and holistic view amounts to a kind of power that builds in one the more one experiences – you know, you just don’t “think” so.

Second, the I suggested for the wise-Wise distinction separating wisdom into two types: mundane and profound. By “mundane” wisdom I mean that understanding of how things function one acquires from working with them for many years. Regarding profound wisdom (or Wise, as Boulderhead put it), I said that was hard to explain since there isn't a lot of agreement about what’s profound. But that if there is something which is profound, the same rules apply as with the mundane: one needs experience of the profound to acquire true wisdom.


Whether you believe there is anything beyond the mundane or not (and therefore making "Wise" possible), at least we should be at the point in this discussion where we are clear why an older person won't accept a young person can be wise, especially one still living at home. It's because we are defining wisdom as experienced-based learning, and since youth haven't had time for much life experience, they also cannot have much wisdom.

It is no slight to you, and says nothing about how much wiser than all of us you will become when you do gain life experience. That is what I meant when I said to Mentat that there is difference between potential and realized potential. I mean, if you redefine wisdom to include the inexperienced, then wisdom ends up meaning nothing.

So, if you have to live to get it, then why fight it? Get on with living!
 
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  • #194
Lets try this, one of the greatest gifts that I have gotten, in my life, (aside from my life which is the first and greatest one) was the knowledge of the "Truth about myself".

It took until I was in my thirties till that happened, and I had had to face some simple realities, like my ability to be "intellectually obstinent", and other negative qualities (positive ones too) that I needed to recognize as a part of me before I could realize that simple truth.

It is a gift!, as it enables me to, in many cases, see "The truth in others", as I can distinguish the difference between 'them' and me, more easily.

But to find that, (receive it actually) you must employ the right tools of self investigation, and, you must be willing to face up to the cold hard truth about yourself in as un-varnished a fashion as it will be presented to you.

Look for the truth, and it will find you, but will you be prepared to accept it? recognize it?

A friend told me an expression, when I was 25, when I was ~35 that expression returned into my head one day, after having just gone through a tasking life trial, and WOW, it made sense to me then as it had never made sense to me at 25, even though, at 25, I had known all the words, understood what they meant, understood what the expression endevoured to tell me, but I just didn't have the life experaince to recognize it till ten years later.

What a revelation that was!
 
  • #195
Originally posted by Integral
Does a human being exist which does not fulfill some facet of these definitions?

That's the point. There is no evidence that proves to me (so far) that wisdom doesn't exist in all human beings, regardless of their age.

Wisdom is one of those concepts which cannot be captured by a simple dictionary definition. Had I known, Mentat, that you needed a dictionary definition this conversation would not have taken place.

You were the one who asked for a definition of wisdom. I assumed that a dictionary would carry more weight than my own opinion.

I assumed that you had a deeper knowledge, as you have claimed. Clearly this is not the case. You will find, that as you age, you will adopt your own working definition of such words, which give such concepts a deeper personal meaning then can be found in a dictionary. I guess you are not there yet.

I have my own definition of wisdom, it just happens to agree with this dictionary's definition. So I presented the one with more recognizable credentials (remember, it is my ability to understand what wisdom really is that is brought into question by LW Sleeth and you).

Wisdom is one of those things that is different for different stages of life, what is wise for a 5 year old may not be so for a 50 yr old. Youth is for learning, until you have raised children of your own you can not appreciate the rate at which infants are capable of learning, while adults can still learn and should never stop learning, children are blank slates waiting to soak up information. For you to assume that you have wisdom equal to that of an adult is not really displaying the wisdom a 15yr old needs, in fact just the opposite, such a judgment is foolish.

Why? It is your assumption that dictates that wisdom must come in stages for every human being. You haven't proved anything, and to post your assumptions as though they were the obvious truth, without providing proof, is truly foolish (no offense).

Wisdom, at your stage of life it to grasp at every source of knowledge available. For you, this means listening to both good and bad information. Indeed, you need to be learning to filter information but be careful in filtering out the wheat with the chafe. How without some experience can you know the difference? Do you expect to get this from a textbook? Or perhaps you should take the word of someone? Do you see the dilemma?

You are saying that I shouldn't except someone's word on what is wise and what is not. You are also trying to explain wisdom to me. You have thus disqualified yourself (along with everyone else).

If you automatically choose not to listen to adults simply because you have convinced yourself of your personal wisdom you are making a big mistake. Far from being wise, this is the action of a fool.

But I do listen to adults, I just don't take them as some sort of "final authority", and I don't take their words as though they had more wisdom than that of a child, unless I see some reason to. King Solomon was very young when he became king, yet he is still considered one of the wisest men who every lived.

It is not clear to me what it is you wish me to prove?

That your view of wisdom is the correct one.

Why is it that I am expected to prove what I say while you are not?

Because I am not posting an opinion, you are. I am posting my lack of opinion and wish to be enlightened.

What proof of your beliefs have you provided? Once again you make statements that are not indicative of wisdom.

If the fact that I have not substantiated my stance is proof of lack of wisdom, then you must also be unwise. If, however, you start to realize that I am not stuck on an opinion, and merely wish to understand what wisdom really is (not just someone's opinion, no matter how old they are), then you will understand what I mean when I ask for "proof".
 
  • #196
Originally posted by BoulderHead
Learning requires time.

But not everyone requires the same amount of time. I could not have learned anything, if I hadn't lived for some period of time. However, I know more, on cerain subjects, than many people who have had much more time to learn about them.

Well, I think I can find the most agreement in this last statement made, but I want to add a few more of my own comments to this thread too;
I do not believe that anyone is born wise. If someone here believes that newborns and infants are wise, I think we will just have to agree to disagree.

Unless, of course, we can agree that wisdom has to do with one's open-mindedness, in which case an infant is - in fact - wise.

The rule stands.

Most young people don’t know a hot rock from a hole in the ground. It’s nothing personal whatsoever; they just haven’t lived long enough yet.

But what if someone teaches them the difference? Then they needn't live a long time to gain the knowledge, they had it when they were young.

In another decade or two, you will likely look back and see yourself in a completely different light then how you imagine yourself now. You may recognize mistakes made in your youth that were out of your control due to your immaturity. Age can bring with it a vantage point, like climbing to the top of a hill, from which you can look downward and backward and see things that you might have missed along the way. But, it takes time to climb.

Yet some are much better climbers than others.

I think Mentat may feel looked down upon and relegated to an automatic ‘inferior’ status by older people, and it is true that young people are often dismissed in such a way.

I think Mentat will let you analyze him in the third-person this one time .

However, it is by actually taking the time to speak with and getting to know individuals that we are able to determine whether they have anything of consequence to say or not. I might have suspicions that I wouldn’t find a young person worthy of giving sage advice, but if what came out of their mouth seemed worthwhile I would listen and consider it…I would also begin to lower my ‘bubble-gummer’ shield a bit the next time we spoke.

Then you are wiser than many older people I have met.
 
  • #197
Originally posted by BoulderHead
He could be wiser in some areas and less wise in others. He may, for instance, have never been exposed to all that the 30 year old had been exposed to. In any event, it still took fifteen years to get were this individual was, so I would figure that a 15 year old would tend to be more wise than a 10 year old, wouldn't you?

Yes, but that's dodging the issue. It is the apparent opinion of many members here, that wisdom must come with much more age than 15 years, and thus the reasoning that a 15-year-old can be as wise as a 30-year-old is in direct conflict with the opinion of many members here.
 
  • #198
Originally posted by Integral
Maximus,
You speak of wisdom as if where a measurable quanity. I am sorry, that is a pretty silly notion.

You were going to leave it at that, weren't you? How can you possibly be satisfied with just stating your opinion like that? How can you expect the one seeing you opinion to just accept it, without proof?

Knowledge can be measured, Understanding can be measured, so why can't Wisdom (according to your reasoining)?

Dismiss any ideas that wisdom, unless you are happy with Mentat's dictionary definition, is something that you seek out. You seek knowledge, you gain wisdom. Or as I said before you EARN wisdom. That is what separates knowledge from wisdom.

And what grants you this wisdom, once you have "earned" it?

You cannot compare wisdom as you do years of school or books read. You cannot rate degrees of wisdom, nor can you even claim wisdom for yourself. In my mind wisdom is something that can only be recognized in you by your associates in life. As soon as you proclaim yourself to be wise you reveal yourself to be a fool.

Then why should one accept that your reasoning is wise, as that would proclaim you a fool (by your own reasoning). No offense is intended, I'm just trying to understand, and having someone state that it is impossible for it to be explained to me is unacceptable.
 
  • #199
Originally posted by Fliption
LWS has yet to respond to "what" line of argument? If this is not your line of argument then what line is it that he hasn't responded to?

I am passing LW's concept of wisdom "through the fire", so to speak, as I've already mentioned. He hasn't been able to escape my reasoning, but has been restating his opinion, in different ways, assuming (as did Alexander in other threads) that my disagreement was an evidence of some misunderstanding.

Well pardon me.

I didn't mean to rebuke you, just making an observation. Forgive me, please, if I have offended.

I interpreted this conversation (in the General forum) to be about the common understanding and usefullness of wisdom. In this common usage, the word wisdom would be meaningless if we were going to leave my PC open as a candidate. In this context, I don't think anyone would agree that my pc is wise.

Alright, then one must break free of the "common" understanding, in order to be wise, mustn't they?

But if you want to claim that this is closed minded then you are either being hard headed or this topic belongs in the philosophy forum.

I see. Alright then, maybe I'll start a thread in the Philosophy Forum.
 
  • #200
quote:

Originally posted by BoulderHead
He could be wiser in some areas and less wise in others. He may, for instance, have never been exposed to all that the 30 year old had been exposed to. In any event, it still took fifteen years to get were this individual was, so I would figure that a 15 year old would tend to be more wise than a 10 year old, wouldn't you?


Originally posted by Mentat;
Yes, but that's dodging the issue. It is the apparent opinion of many members here, that wisdom must come with much more age than 15 years, and thus the reasoning that a 15-year-old can be as wise as a 30-year-old is in direct conflict with the opinion of many members here.

I wasn’t trying to dodge the issue at all. My point has been all along that there are some things that youth, even youth with a keen intellect, will not be able to compensate for. Even in youth it has still taken time to learn and to grow, and hence the connection to wisdom and the passage of time. How many teenagers seek out 5-year olds for council because they believe that age isn’t relevant in this matter? What I thought I was seeing happening was knowledge and wisdom being intermixed, and a ‘checklist’ road to wisdom being applied. I think that is not the way to approach the issue, and it makes me think of an argument about being ‘grown’;

Are you grown?
Yes, even infants are grown. They grew a little yesterday and so they know about growing, having already grown. Some infants have even grown more rapidly than others, etc, etc.

No matter how fast you learn (or grow), the process still takes time. The more time, the better, regardless of the rate of development.

I cannot speak for the other members, only for myself. It should be clear by this time that we can all have our own take on this wisdom issue. You spoke of infants and open mindedness relating to possibly being a part of wisdom, but after reading the dictionary definition you provided as representing your understanding I see little or no room for consideration of open mindedness in infancy playing a part of this and therefore I would say that bringing it up is more of a dodge on your part.

I remember that young guru now; He was/is the guru Maharaji

He was probably just a wise-ass kid that knew how to sucker the adults
 

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