I can get her to be alone with me

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The discussion centers around how to initiate physical contact with a girl in a natural way, particularly in a movie theater setting. Participants emphasize the importance of being genuine and not overly strategic or manipulative. Suggestions include simple gestures like holding hands or offering comfort during a scary movie, which can create opportunities for closer contact without feeling forced. The conversation also touches on the complexities of sexual relationships, with some arguing that casual encounters can lack emotional depth, while others assert that sex can be purely physical and not necessarily tied to intimacy. Concerns about the implications of sexual relationships, such as unwanted pregnancies and STDs, are raised, highlighting the need for responsibility and communication. Ultimately, the dialogue reflects differing views on the nature of relationships and the importance of mutual respect and consent.
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  • #62
Yes she is the girl in my other threads.

Everytime I see her its as if I am seeing her for the very first time. Its been 5 months since I met her. The more I know about her seems like more I fall in love with her. I cry sometimes thinking about her. If this is not love then I don't know what love is.

Yes I tried to grab her hand after we got high. She jolted. Then I tried it outside my car as we were walking to the theater. I thought it would be romantic to walk hand in hand. She rejected again. Then in the movie I ask her "how many dates would this be for us" she said "there is NO us" I tried to hold her hand and she skipped one seat away. And yes it was awkward. On the way back I tried holding her hand one more time which she rejected and didn't speak a word till her house then she said "drive safe"
 
  • #63
SELFMADE said:
Yes she is the girl in my other threads.

Everytime I see her its as if I am seeing her for the very first time. Its been 5 months since I met her. The more I know about her seems like more I fall in love with her. I cry sometimes thinking about her. If this is not love then I don't know what love is.
That is not love, it is an unhealthy obsession.

Yes I tried to grab her hand after we got high. She jolted. Then I tried it outside my car as we were walking to the theater. I thought it would be romantic to walk hand in hand. She rejected again. Then in the movie I ask her "how many dates would this be for us" she said "there is NO us" I tried to hold her hand and she skipped one seat away. And yes it was awkward. On the way back I tried holding her hand one more time which she rejected and didn't speak a word till her house then she said "drive safe"
YIKES! Are you serious? If you're not joking, you need to seek a mental health professional.

Stay away from her. You need to understand that NO means NO.
 
  • #64
We already established that this guy is obsessed in the last thread. He is kind of a psycho in my opinion.
SELFMADE all you have to do is stop seeing her. You'll get over her...
 
  • #65
I don't think it is that bad. I was just with her few minutes ago. Drove her back from her work. I asked her thru txt if she wanted me to give her ride, she didn't reply so I showed up at her work anyways. I had to see her smile. It had been 4 days since I'd seen her. During these 4 days there wasn't a single moment that passed where it didn't include her. She was in a bad mood today, her bones were hurting, she said she was on shots for 6 years and stopped cus it was making her dependent on it. She got so many ailments. Can u imagine being so frail and alone, not even making minimum wage. One time we went out and she wanted to make a little scene when that bar was closing. Owner and the bouncer wanted her to leave the beer she had in her hands. She refused but I told her they're closing and we should leave. She reluctantly did. Outside she hit on my chest saying I should have protected her. Now I would do anything for her.
 
  • #66
SELFMADE said:
she didn't reply so I showed up at her work anyways
You're a troll.
 
  • #67
SELFMADE said:
One time we went out and she wanted to make a little scene when that bar was closing. Owner and the bouncer wanted her to leave the beer she had in her hands. She refused but I told her they're closing and we should leave. She reluctantly did. Outside she hit on my chest saying I should have protected her. Now I would do anything for her.

Seriously?
 
  • #68
Mentallic said:
You're a troll.

I'm sort of thinking that too. Either that, or he's in need of help that we can't give on an online forum.

OP, please seek professional help.
 
  • #69
This forum is for discussing relationships, not unhealthy, delusional fantasies. Please seek professional help.
 
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