Buzz Bloom said:
Suppose the "particle" of interest is a BH in an otherwise empty universe. The time static radial distortion of space around the BH is similar to the concept I have about a "distortion of space"
And this concept is only applicable to that particular class of spacetimes. The spacetimes which have electromagnetic fields as the source of gravity, as well as the other spacetimes referenced in this thread as possible models for "light as a source of gravity", the ultraboost and null dust spacetimes, are not members of that class of spacetimes, so the concept you describe does not apply to them.
Also, even in the class of spacetimes to which it is applicable, the concept you describe only applies to a particular class of observers, the ones who are "hovering" at a constant altitude above the hole's horizon. Observers who are free-falling into the hole do not see the "distortion of space" you describe.
Buzz Bloom said:
the ratio of radius to circumference of a circle around the BH varies with radius.
Not quite. The ratio of radial
coordinate to circumference is constant: it is ##2 \pi## everywhere, because that's how the Schwarzschild radial coordinate is defined.
For a BH, "radius" in the sense of "physical distance from the center" isn't even well-defined, because there is no "center" in that sense for a BH. For static observers (the ones who are "hovering" at a constant altitude above the horizon), there is a well-defined physical distance from the event horizon (although even that has to be defined as a limiting process, since there are no static observers at the horizon), but it is not the same as the "radius" you are imagining.
Buzz Bloom said:
I may be mistaken, but I think this is the de Sitter–Schwarzschild metric.
No, it's just the Schwarzschild metric.