The discussion centers on the perception of English as a "soft" language compared to others, particularly German. Participants explore how pronunciation, including the relaxation of the tongue and the use of vowels, contributes to this softness. There is a recognition that English has fewer harsh sounds than German, but opinions vary on what constitutes a "soft voice." The conversation touches on the importance of accent reduction classes for non-native speakers, highlighting how subtle changes in tongue position can affect pronunciation. Various dialects and regional accents within English also contribute to the complexity of this topic. Participants express a need for clearer definitions and examples of what is meant by "soft voice," suggesting that understanding phonetics and the International Phonetic Alphabet (IPA) could aid in improving pronunciation. Ultimately, while English may be perceived as direct and straightforward, its nuances in sound and pronunciation can lead to differing interpretations of softness.