We may assume f and f' are continuous, since that is not the main question I am concerned with.
HallsofIvy said:
Saying that
[tex]\lim_{x\to a} f(x)= F[/tex]
is exactly the same as saying
[tex]\lim_{n\to\infty} f(x_n)= F[/tex]
where
[tex]\lim_{n\to\infty} x_n= a[/tex]
so, yes, your equation is correct.
It is not quite the same thing, since that is not how the derivative is defined - all definitions I've seen have one value fixed. I.e. just plugging in [tex]x_n[/tex] to [tex]f'(x)[/tex] does not give the same function as I described, so sequential characterization doesn't work directly:
[tex]f'(x_n) = \lim_{x \rightarrow x_n} \frac{f(x) - f(x_n)}{x-x_n}[/tex]
or we could define it as
[tex]f'(x) = \lim_{n \rightarrow \infty} \frac{f(x) - f(x_n)}{x-x_n}[/tex]
However neither of these are the same as the limit I gave, in which both [tex]x_n[/tex] and [tex]x_{n-1}[/tex] are changing sequences, and aren't fixed. Even if accepted as another definition, then can you offer a proof the definitions are equivalent?The problem I was stuck with when I tried to use something like
[tex]f'(x_n) = \lim_{x \rightarrow x_n} \frac{f(x) - f(x_n)}{x-x_n}[/tex]
to get a bound, is that then any delta requirement depends on the specific value of n, but I may need to choose n large enough so that [tex]x_n[/tex] and [tex]x_{n-1}[/tex] meet the delta requirement, but that ends up potentially changing [tex]x_n[/tex] and the delta needed again since it depends on the specific x_n, so it's sort of like a race condition.