goingmeta said:
Everybody struggles at some point at their current level though. As a tutor, you probably see a lot of that. What matters more is, when you track these people, that they achieve a level higher, succeed, and progress.
Did you not think that these students nevertheless learned these difficult concepts?
I guess the thing that I should have emphasized is that for a lot of people, they just want to pass and move on with their life.
When some-one has had a lot of pain, sometimes all they want to do is to escape it in any way that they can. They do what they have to do and if they don't have to do it again, they will make decisions so that they don't have to.
Some people have the intention of learning things like math and physics: for these people the struggle is a means to an end and a necessary part of the journey.
Others don't have the same ambitions and if they can avoid it they will.
When I hear people argue about whether everyone can get a BS, I have to say again that I think the answer is no and another reason is the one mentioned above: namely that a lot of people just don't care enough to go through the struggle.
The path of least resistance is different for everyone and it depends on what peoples values and intents are. For a person that is set on learning the path of least resistance is going through the struggle and getting better.
For someone with a different goal, it might be passing the unit and never touching it again.
The fact that everyone has different interests, values, and ambitions will mean that they are geared to have different paths of least resistance and will choose their paths accordingly.
Its like learning to play an instrument: some people really won't be all that interested and may give up after a few weeks or a month where-as the other person will slave away for decades seven days a week.
You might ask the question: "Is everyone capable of becoming a professional musician?" and you will get the exact same responses as this thread has contributed.