Dear Choppy, thank for so much for your detailed answer! In my case it is "an option of many" where I have little understanding "which option is going to fit best with the long term goals". My main long term goal to support my family of 4, while getting a minimum of postdoc-level income, preferably until retirement. Trying to get a job in industry or public service (or some other area that pays at least 80% of postdoc salary) did not lead to any interviews in the last 2 years. My friends who tried much harder to get out of academia (and had better marketable skills) are now all postdocs or unemployed. Of course I will continue networking, applying and re-skilling, but I am not very hopeful that I will be able to get a non-academic job anytime soon.
Different options for me include:
1) Getting an R&D postdoc that does not depend on grant funding and hoping to stay there as long as possible. I personally know 2 people who have been postdocs for over 17 years. Publishing is secondary to delivering an industrial product on time. Where does it lead me when the funding dries up and I can't get an R&D job elsewhere because I'm now too old? I have no idea.
2) Staying in the group of my PhD for a while, co-supervising PhD students, publishing, teaching and applying for grants. Then, when the funding is over, applying for postdoc positions in the local area, mostly though my network. I don't think that I am good enough to get a tenure, but at least I might be able to continue getting postdocs for a while, meanwhile publishing several papers per year in 3<IF<10 journals. What to do after I get too old for further postdocs? Again, no idea.
3) Trying to get a postdoc in a prestigious place, where people routinely publish in Nature (although relocating there with a family would be hard). Then trying to publish as high as possible and hunting for tenure-track positions. No guarantee of a tenured position (and I am not sure if I can ever be a great independent researcher), and likely worse off financially and emotionally during this ordeal compared to the first two options.
Am I missing any alternatives? ;-)