Jelfish said:
Dear QuantumTheory
I genuinely believe that you are an intellegent person. Sure, you may have some self-esteem issues, but you are far from being unintellegent. I remember being a junior in high school that age and can attest to having peers who, for the most part, cared little of their subjects, nevermind taking an avid interest in physics.
That said, I also believe, to an obnoxious degree, that I am an intellegent person. Therefore, if you ever again need to ask or reconfirm your intellegence, I will automatically assume that you lack faith in my intellegence. Furthermore, if such infidelity is witnessed, I will have no choice but to promptly and irrevocably change my opinion of your intellegence.
If others brand you as unintellegent, your best course of action is to be humble, for the most intellegent person acknowledges that he lacks knowledge. As Einstein once said, "If A is a success in life, then A equals x plus y plus z. Work is x; y is play; and z is keeping your mouth shut." [emphasis mine] This (the emphasized) means that your success heavily relies on your ability to evade needless conflict (i.e. what is lacking in many of your threads), something that is perhaps more important than understanding physics. This means swallowing your pride when you are wrong.
I do not believe I can offer you any more practical advice. QuantumTheory, you are intellegent. Please don't prove me wrong.
Thank you. Did you see my psychological debates on the skeptisim forum and on the philpshy forum? I have more questions than answers, because I am not a guru on philopshy.
I avoid all conflict on the playstation forums. If someone insults me, I ignore them. I am very mature there. I should act the same here, but when people say I'm 'average' and try to give me absurdly high standards on India tests, it angers me. People here expect too much. People there act more mature on the off topic forums, and we have useful debates. Here, whenever I make a thread, rational or not, there is no debates. No one appreciates it. Because it is not full of math equations that I don't know. That is what doesn't seem to fair to me, and unfortunately, pushes me over the edge here.
I do lack I'm intelligent. In fact, I don't even go that far. I just wanted an acknowledgment that if I know a lot for my age, and that is saying too much here. People won't even knowledge that! I'm glad you have common sense, cherish it, its something to cherish.
That is why, my friend, I'm going to bear with me, get a tutor, and learn calculus, pre calc, trig, everything. Then never come here again, knowing I don't want to be told I'm 'average' from other teens (BecauseI can't do high level physic) and insulted for no reason. Even then, I wont' come back. I feel so worthless here, and people take pride in harassing me, because it makes THEM feel intelligent.
I hope I find another physics forum, I just can't stand this place anymore.
Again, thank you. Not because you told me what I want to hear, but because, thank god, you have common sense.