homology said:
Just because he wants a yes/no answer doesn't mean there is one.
Especially since he didn't technically ask a yes or no question, eh?
"Do you think math is built into nature"
I'm not too sure what this part of your thought would actually mean. In many ways it seems that math is a language... and the Greeks didn't call nipples, nipples but we all know nipples are part of nature. So, semantically no form of communication is as organic as to say it was "built into nature" because it is all learned. Direct eye contact even means severely different things to different communicators...
Personally, I always liked the criminal forensic analogy. "Blood spatter" is an entirely relevant element of crime solving, and yet for thousands of years it sat entirely arbitrary within the matter of solving crimes. The same thing with finger prints... They've always been there and are simple enough to see just like mathematic interactions, but the actual analysis of them require representations, which almost by definitions cannot physically exist the same way as their host. Math is a language mankind has derived for itself in order to analyze and predict the condition of nature and like any language, the representations are learned but that doesn't make, for example, the Earth's escape velocity, which is represented with a host of equations and symbols but when it comes down to it, you break 25.2k mph and you orbit Earth.
As far as the more complex stuff that seems not to be attached to elements of reality, well just like blood spatter... until people gain the ability to see aspects of nature in a way that communicates to them things seem a lot more arbitrary than they really are.
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Where's the math that says ∞! is bigger than God's nose hair?