I remember the first few times I played paintball wars, I thought I was Rambo... nothing to lose... but I sat out a lot more than most people... if it was real life... i'd be sitting out right now... in some hole in the ground about 6 feet deep. My family would miss me, my dog would probably die from separation anxiety. Yeah, maybe I sucked... but even good people die for no reason.
No one wins in war... what are you hoping to win? what will your win cost you? Let me live another 40 years without the worries of war in my backyard and that will be a happy life. I don't even need to go to heaven.