PeterDonis said:
The possible departure from uniqueness is pretty small: all we have, by your argument, is one additional free parameter in the solution, that specifies how much energy density a given amount of electric field produces.
Any departure from uniqueness is non-uniqueness. The amount is irrelevant as far as the principle is concerned.
In the RN coordinates, the SET is diagonal, traceless, tangentially isotropic, and satisfies the TOV equation (as in your derivation). So all freedom left to begin with is a single parameter (which is eliminated too, if a further assumption like minimal SET is added).
In a general spacetime, we may expect more degrees of freedom due to SET modification.
PeterDonis said:
This would amount to a different prediction for how much energy density a given amount of electric field produces; there would be an extra factor in the energy density that doesn't arise from the charge producing the field. So what does it arise from?
I have a speculation:
Consider for example the SR Lagrangian density ##~\mathcal{L}~## of QED as a classical function (before quantization). If we multiply it by a constant positive factor, that factor drops out of the Euler-Lagrange equations (ie. Maxwell and Dirac equations), but not from the canonical SET. So we get a family of theories which satisfy "classical QED" but their SETs differ by a factor (all these SETs are derived, none is "pulled out of a hat"). This suggests that ##~T^t{}_t~## is not necessarily the energy density itself, only proportionality to it is guaranteed (likewise for the other SET components).
In SR all these theories are just as good - no observable difference. But only one of these SETs (after symmetrization, etc.) should be used in EFE. It seems that our little RN example can tell them apart. If that's really the case, the assumption of minimal SET implicitly fixes the factor to be 1 (so ##~T^t{}_t~## is exactly the EM energy density). In that spirit, when Wald discusses the compatibility of CMB observations, it implies that any deviation from 1, if possible at all, is below our measurement capabilities.
Again, it is only a speculation.
Possible modifications of SET, as speculated in this thread, may have similar implications.