Kicked Out - Saying Goodbye with Sadness

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The thread revolves around a member, Binz, who is experiencing significant life changes, including being temporarily displaced from their home and moving in with a cousin. Participants express concern, share personal experiences, and offer support while discussing the implications of Binz's situation.

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  • Emotional support, Personal experiences, Community engagement

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  • Binz indicates that their visits to the forum will become less frequent due to personal circumstances.
  • Some participants express love and concern for Binz, urging them to stay connected.
  • There are questions about the nature of Binz's situation, including whether they have been kicked out of school or home.
  • Binz clarifies that they are moving to stay with a cousin while their father teaches elsewhere.
  • Participants share their own experiences of leaving home at a young age, with some suggesting it can be a positive change.
  • Concerns are raised about Binz's well-being and the legality of their situation as a minor.
  • Some participants suggest that this change might be beneficial for Binz, referencing past experiences of their own.
  • There are offers of help and encouragement from other members, emphasizing community support.

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Participants generally express concern and support for Binz, but there are varying opinions on the implications of their situation. Some view it as a potential opportunity for growth, while others emphasize the challenges that may arise.

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There are unresolved questions regarding the legal aspects of Binz's situation as a minor and the potential impact on their education and living conditions.

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Members interested in personal development, community support, and shared experiences related to young adulthood may find this discussion relevant.

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See title.

So anyways, my already sparse visits will likely become even fewer and farther between. Not sure.

Just want to let you all know that I've enjoyed all of you guys, not that I'm leaving, but nonetheless.
 
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Love ya, binz. Please stay close.
 
binzing said:
See title.

So anyways, my already sparse visits will likely become even fewer and farther between. Not sure.

Just want to let you all know that I've enjoyed all of you guys, not that I'm leaving, but nonetheless.

Kicked out of school? Kicked out of the house? Kicked out of PhyForum chat? What's going on Binz?
 
OmCheeto said:
Kicked out of school? Kicked out of the house? Kicked out of PhyForum chat? What's going on Binz?

Out of the house, my moms, and my dads teaching on the res. 60 miles away, somewhere I will not go to school, so I'm going to be with a cousin for a while at least, dunno.
 
Oh binz, I'm really worried about you...please let us know how you're doing! We really care about you!
 
Thank you lisa, I'll keep you guys posted.
 
no sweat, it's not as bad as being kicked out of pf.
 
binzing said:
Thank you lisa, I'll keep you guys posted.

Sounds like an excellent adventure to me. I had to kick myself out of the house about the time I was 18. Do you have to sleep on the floor or the couch at your cousins? I had to kick myself out of the navy, as they made me sleep on the floor one day. Major no-no if you want to keep the help around.
 
Good luck Binzing.
 
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Good luck, binzing! Hopefully you'll only be gone a short time until you settle into someplace new. There are always libraries if you need a place to get access to PF!
 
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Wait, binzing is 15, right?

Binz, do you need someone to come for you? Will your parents allow us to help?
 
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Can your mom even legally "kick you out"? Aren't you still a minor?

I guess from everything you've told us, you're glad to go. It's going to be ok. A lot of us went off on our own pretty young. I'm hoping this cousin of yours is a responsible adult, though.
 
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Math Is Hard said:
Can your mom even legally "kick you out"? Aren't you still a minor?

I guess from everything you've told us, you're glad to go. It's going to be ok. A lot of us went off on our own pretty young.

True...I was 17. It wasn't easy, though.

I feel for you, Binz.
 
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Evo said:
Wait, binzing is 15, right?

Binz, do you need someone to come for you? Will your parents allow us to help?

17 actually.

My dad's teaching on a reservation about 80 miles east of here, he came and picked me up and took me into town to my cousin's, it should all work out.
 
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binzing said:
17 actually.

My dad's teaching on a reservation about 80 miles east of here, he came and picked me up and took me into town to my cousin's, it should all work out.

Odd. This whole thread looks like tonight's episode of Futurama. I'm think I'll go to bed, before I wake up and find out this is all a weird *** dream.
 
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Awe, we are all here for ya. Hope all goes well for ya. If you need help, don't be afraid to ask. Hope you aren't gone for long, you will be missed.
 
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lisab said:
True...I was 17. It wasn't easy, though.

I feel for you, Binz.
I pretty much left at 17, but then it was off to university.

Good luck binz. Holler if there's something we can do.
 
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Binz, I'm sorry to say this, but from what you were telling us on PF chat regarding your mom's decorum, it seems like a blessing in disguise.

You should be glad, you're now free and you won't be called a moron or an idiot for trivial matters.
 
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Yeah I think there will be advantages...
 
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I was out on my own when I was 17, and that way by my own choice. I got a job, rented an apartment and it's been an interesting adventure since then. I'm not saying that's the best way to go; I just didn't really have a whole lot of choice.

If people can help you out, binzing, and you can keep going to school and get post-sec with people's support, take it. You won't regret it. Try not to make too many dumb choices. Try to listen to people who are older than you who you respect. (I realize that likely everyone older than you seems to have no clue what anything's about, but trust me on this one, there are plenty of people who know a whole bunch. Listening will only help you.)

Good luck and check back in here as needed. There's a bunch of terrific people here who know stuff and care a great deal.
 
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GeorginaS said:
I was out on my own when I was 17, and that way by my own choice. I got a job, rented an apartment and it's been an interesting adventure since then. I'm not saying that's the best way to go; I just didn't really have a whole lot of choice.

If people can help you out, binzing, and you can keep going to school and get post-sec with people's support, take it. You won't regret it. Try not to make too many dumb choices. Try to listen to people who are older than you who you respect. (I realize that likely everyone older than you seems to have no clue what anything's about, but trust me on this one, there are plenty of people who know a whole bunch. Listening will only help you.)

Good luck and check back in here as needed. There's a bunch of terrific people here who know stuff and care a great deal.

Thank you Georgina : ) It's all going to work out in the end.
 

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