Men: How Would You React to Being Contacted Out of the Blue?

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The discussion centers around the reactions of individuals when contacted unexpectedly by a woman expressing admiration for them. Initial responses include feelings of flattery mixed with suspicion, particularly regarding how the woman obtained their email address. Public figures note they often receive such messages, which can feel overwhelming or even creepy, depending on the approach and content of the email. Many participants agree that the context and tone of the message significantly influence their reactions; a well-crafted email referencing shared interests or work is more likely to be welcomed than a vague compliment. Some express that if they were single, they might be more open to engaging, while others emphasize discomfort, especially if the message is overly focused on physical attraction. The conversation also touches on the challenges of online communication, where initial impressions can be easily misinterpreted. Ultimately, there is a consensus that while such outreach can be flattering, it often requires careful consideration of how to approach the recipient to avoid coming off as strange or overly forward.

How would you feel about a woman e-mailing you with no prior contact?

  • She must be crazy

    Votes: 10 18.5%
  • I would be flattered

    Votes: 21 38.9%
  • Depends on what she looks like

    Votes: 11 20.4%
  • Depends on her personality

    Votes: 12 22.2%

  • Total voters
    54
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  • #272
Math Is Hard said:
That was incredible. :smile:
:frown: I can't watch it.
 
  • #275
Mih, -- --!
 
  • #276
rewebster said:
Mih, -- --!
Hey, don't start sending messages to MIH.

kurdt, that was great, I was finally able to watch it.
 
  • #277
Math Is Hard said:
I think you should send him a singing telegram. If you'll fly me there, I'll deliver the musical message in a bear suit and tap shoes.
If you're in your bare suit with tap shoes that might spoil Evo's chances. :smile:
 
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turbo-1 said:
If you're in your bare suit with tap shoes that might spoil Evo's chances. :smile:

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