Proof? I don't see how the triangle inequality follows from
@MathematicalPhysicist 's definition? If we have an isometry, then ##d## and ##\varphi## commute, but not the other way around. I guess one has to define an appropriate topology on ##Y## first.
... which exactly has been your question. Is there an example or not? Or how does a metric and a homeomorphism relate? As mentioned above, as long as metric and homeomorphism do not commute, and I can't see why they have to, as long there is a counterexample. One could even have two different metrics on ##Y##, one which extends the homeomorphism, and one which is a completely different one as e.g. the discrete metric.