My Forgotten Past: A Million to One Chance

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The discussion revolves around the phenomenon of memory recall, particularly in relation to past encounters with people from one's youth. Participants share personal experiences of meeting individuals from their past and reflect on their own memory retention, or lack thereof, regarding school and social interactions. The scope includes personal anecdotes, psychological reflections, and the impact of time on memory.

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Main Points Raised

  • One participant expresses a lack of memory prior to their 21st birthday, questioning whether past head injuries could be the cause.
  • Another suggests that viewing old photographs or documents might help stimulate memory recall.
  • Several participants recount similar experiences of unexpectedly meeting people from their past, indicating that such encounters, while seemingly rare, are not uncommon.
  • Some participants note that they often do not remember faces or names of people from high school, despite those individuals recalling them.
  • One participant mentions having a strong memory for details and events from their school years, contrasting with others who struggle with recall.
  • Another reflects on the anxiety of not remembering people who may have significant memories associated with them.

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Participants share a variety of personal experiences regarding memory, with some expressing strong recall while others struggle with it. There is no consensus on the reasons behind these differences, nor on the implications of meeting people from the past.

Contextual Notes

Some participants mention the influence of school size on memory retention, as well as the potential impact of social interactions on how memories are formed and recalled. The discussion does not resolve the complexities of memory and its variability among individuals.

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Individuals interested in psychology, memory studies, or personal anecdotes related to social interactions and memory recall may find this discussion relevant.

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I did some thing i have not done before, i nipped out of work to get fish and chips, on the way out of the chip shop a guy stopped me and asked ( excuse me can you tell me where i can get gas) ? It turned out that this guy knew me from middle school,later he had gone to catholic school and i went to high school ,after his family had moved to Australia, and he then moved to the US, but for the love of nora i do not remember him, yet in the short time we had he related events and people i knew were true, but then the shock set in, i have no memory prior to my 21st birthday party, even that is vauge, and yet when told of some thing that happened in the past, i have (flash backs) and seem to know that they happened, now i know i have had a few bumps to the noggin but can this be the sole reason my memory has almost gone?
 
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Hi Daimon,

It might help stimulating your memory if you could get hold of pictures of those periods or any paperwork.

Incidently bumping into a person of the past is not that rare. Certainly, when considering the chance to meet a certain person at a certain time is infinitesimal small. However meeting one of the many old friends one of these years is not such an impossibility.
 
Andre said:
Hi Daimon,

It might help stimulating your memory if you could get hold of pictures of those periods or any paperwork.

Incidently bumping into a person of the past is not that rare. Certainly, when considering the chance to meet a certain person at a certain time is infinitesimal small. However meeting one of the many old friends one of these years is not such an impossibility.

Rock on Andre, i read all your suff, and think you seem to know some thing about it :approve: :approve: I have a few poor pictures of a chubby guy that looks nothing like me.
 
I've had perhaps two similar experiences - once standing in line waiting to see a movie (someone from elementary school whom I hadn't seen in 12 years was standing right behind me), and the other time in an airport in Europe where I ran into someone I hadn't seen in about 14-15 years.

Neither circumstance involved the separation of time which you mentioned, Woolie.
 
There are a lot of people, apparently, who remember me from high school, but I don't remember them. I just didn't take a lot of notice of things people did if they weren't in my classes (it was a huge school). There are even a number of people whose faces I remember, but not their names at all. And of those whose faces I remember, I wonder if I'd recognize them at all this many years later. But, once in a while I bump into someone who remembers me, and I don't remember them at all. For instance, my roommate in college ended up dating a guy I went to high school with, and even just a year out of high school at the time, I had no recollection of who this guy was, but he immediately recognized me. :rolleyes: Of course, this doesn't just happen to me with high school classmates. I meet people at conferences that I'm really quite certain I've never before been introduced to, yet they already know who I am! It sometimes makes me a bit nervous, because I wonder if I've met them and don't remember, and am risking insulting someone for not remembering who they are, or what it is that I've done that they remember me for if we haven't actually met in person.
 
I don't know about you guys, but I remember almost everything and I mean almost everything down to conversations and possibly roughly what time of year it was! Or day!

I forget names, but not of people I know normally. If I just meet someone, especially at the bar, I forget their name within 5 minutes or by the end of the night. Girl or guy.

Yeah, I remember plenty, but then again I'm only turning 23. High school isn't too far. As for junior high (grades 7 and 8) I remember lots, and for Grades 7 6 5 4 3 2 and I remember a bit from grade 1 and pre-school. It gets blurry after that, but then again I'm far too young then to acknowledge anything. I found that I connect everything in my memory to school. As long as I think school, I remember events in and out of school and during the summer months.

Maybe when I'm older I'll forget. Who knows.
 
Moonbear said:
There are a lot of people, apparently, who remember me from high school, but I don't remember them. I just didn't take a lot of notice of things people did if they weren't in my classes (it was a huge school). There are even a number of people whose faces I remember, but not their names at all. And of those whose faces I remember, I wonder if I'd recognize them at all this many years later. But, once in a while I bump into someone who remembers me, and I don't remember them at all. For instance, my roommate in college ended up dating a guy I went to high school with, and even just a year out of high school at the time, I had no recollection of who this guy was, but he immediately recognized me. :rolleyes: Of course, this doesn't just happen to me with high school classmates. I meet people at conferences that I'm really quite certain I've never before been introduced to, yet they already know who I am! It sometimes makes me a bit nervous, because I wonder if I've met them and don't remember, and am risking insulting someone for not remembering who they are, or what it is that I've done that they remember me for if we haven't actually met in person.

Oh! That would be hilarious not remembering someone who's important. It sucks but it's funny because they are important but not important enough to remember.

The only reason meeting people from the past sucks for me is because the whole school knew who I was from plays that I did, the talent show , and I worked at the cafetaria (everyone's dream job!).
 
Well if you guys were around in my youth i am sure i would not have forgoten you, the gableadictum :biggrin: (was that space patrol)? the
captain scarlet, now bearded :biggrin: : and the road runner ess::rolleyes: :rolleyes: Evo, and spock, grow some pointy ears ears Jason :smile:
 

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