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Describing molecular geometries using the VSEPR Theory and the Valence Bond Theories...
The VSEPR Theory requires determination of two factors that define the molecular geometry of a molecule; one, the number of bonded electron pairs and two, the number of non-bonded electron pairs. The total number of electron pairs determine the geometric valence configuration of the central element in the molecule, i.e., oxygen in this case and is referenced to a 'Parent Structure'... The final structural geometry is a 'derived structure' based on the geometry generated by the bonded pairs of electrons. The non-bonded pair do not define the terminology of the derived structure... So, (1) given H
2O, the two Hydrogen attached to Oxygen represent two 'Bonded Pair of Electrons'. (2) The 'Non-bonded' pair is calculated from the simple formula = (∑ Valence electrons - ∑Substrate electrons)/2 = V - S / 2. The ∑V = Number of Valence Electrons = 2H + 2O = 2(1) + 1(6) = 8 valence electrons. The Substrate Number is the total number of electrons associated with the Hydrogen atoms when bonded per the 'Octet Rule'. However, Hydrogen has only 2 electrons in the valence shell when bonded. So, the ∑Substrate electrons when bonded = 2H = 2(2) = 4. So, the Number of Non-Bonded electron pair = V - S / 2 = 8 - 4 / 2 = 2 Non-Bonded electron pair associated with the central element oxygen. The
total number of electron pairs associated with the central element oxygen = 2 Bonded Pair + 2 Non-Bonded Pair = 4 Electron Pairs. In the vernacular of the VSEPR Theory, this is an AX
4 'Parent' structure which is a regular tetrahedron. Applying 2 Bonded Pr and 2 Non-Bonded Pr to the Tetrahedron => AX
2E
2 geometry. The final structural geometry is base
only upon the 'Bonded Pairs' which gives the final geometry of the H
2O molecule = Bent Angular. This approach works for binary molecular structures, but when understood can be extended to more complex multi-centered molecules. Try to define the geometry of CH
4, NH
3 in the same way. You will find both are based upon a Tetrahedral Parent with methane having the same geometry as the parent, but ammonia is an AX
3E geometry. Applied to the regular tetrahedron, this translates into a 'Pyrimidal' Geometry.
Describing molecular geometry using the Valence Bond Theory uses the same basic Parent Structures but describes the geometry in terms of 'Hybridized Valence Orbitals'. That is, the valence shell of the ground state electron configuration of the central element must undergo change in order to accommodate the Bonded and Non-Bonded electron pairs associated with the central element of the binary molecule. Applied to water, begin with the electron configuration of Oxygen =>
O: [He}2s
22p
x2p
y1p
z1. The valence shell of Oxygen can not accommodate bonding in this configuration because of energy differences between the valence shell sub-orbitals. So, the valence orbitals blend together to generate 4 equal energy 'Hybridized Orbitals' made from 1 s-orbital and 3 p-orbitals. Each of the 4 hybrid orbitals are termed sp
3 hybrids b/c they are formed by blending 1s and 3p orbitals. Each is an asymmetric figure 8.
Four of the hybrids (green) will join at the apex origin and assume positions in 3D space that minimize repulsion energy. Two of the hybrids have paramagnetic electrons (i.e., a single electron) and two have diamagnetic electrons (i.e., Non-Bonded electron pairs). The Hydrogen 1s
1 orbitals pair with the paramagnetic electrons to form two Bonded pair and a Bent Angular Geometry.
Two of the hybrids contain diamagnetic electron pairs ( = Non-Bonded Prs ) while the two with paramagnetic electrons bond by paring with the 1s electron in each of the Hydrogen atoms.
Now, one thing you need to understand about this is, the hybrids are 'pre-bonding' conditions. Once the H bonds to the Oxygen the bond becomes a 'Sigma Bond'. Which is defined by the fact that a line of symmetry can be drawn through the nuclei of the bonding elements. This means that water has two sp
3 hybrids with Non-Bonded Diamagnetic electrons and two Sigma bonds accommodating the Hydrogen to Oxygen Bonded Pair.
The H - O bonds are Sigma Bonds and the Non-Bonded Pr are in sp
3 hybrids. Try this with CH
4 and NH
3. Methane has 4 Sigma Bonds from H-C bonds and zero Non-Bonded Pr => geometry = Tetrahedron. Ammonia has 3 Sigma Bonds and 1 sp
3 hybrid with 1 Non-Bonded Pr => geometry = Pyramidal. Remember, geometries are defined only in terms of bonded pairs. Also, geometries are equivalent to those derived in the VSEPR Theory. :-)