bahamagreen said:
the retina is not an event, it is a spatially extended surface of events.
This is true, but I don't think it means what you (and possibly the OP) think it means. See below.
bahamagreen said:
Op seems to be wondering to what degree the Andromeda paradox is applicable to the retina... a fine and insightful relativity question.
If that was indeed the question, it wasn't very clear. However, the answer is, "not enough to matter", because the retina's cells are at rest relative to each other to a very good approximation, and the retinas of your two eyes are at rest relative to each other to almost as good an approximation. "Very good approximation" means here that any "time uncertainty" due to relative motion is much, much smaller than the latency times in the nervous system, which you have already mentioned.
There's another point here, though, which I was trying to get at with my previous post. Getting wrapped up in whether there is a single "simultaneity" for the retina, or for your two eyes, is pointless, because "simultaneity" is an abstraction in our mathematical models; it doesn't exist anywhere in the retina cells or the signals or the brain, and it doesn't have any physical effects in the retina cells or the signals or the brain. (Relative motion of the retina cells or the eyes might have physical effects, but those effects would have nothing to do with "simultaneity" being shared or not shared.)
And, as I've said before, "simultaneity" is not even a *necessary* feature of our mathematical models. You can compute all relativistic effects and physical observables without ever even using it; in fact computations often are simpler that way. These incessant questions about simultaneity are driven by our pre-relativistic intuitions, not by the physics. The proper cure, IMO, is to retrain one's intuitions.