Since in our proper frame of reference the fall of material into a black hole would appear to take for an eternity, would it not follow then that all black holes would appear as these instead? Would in fact all black holes appear this way? What if you have a small black hole and then have a large black hole pass by within 1.0001 of its large schwarzschild radius? Wouldn't material above 1.0001 of the schwarzchild radius of the smaller object accelerate the other way? If we could track the positions of particles relative to our proper frame of reference could we not project that some the mass of the smaller black hole leave the system entirely as a gamma ray burst?